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Author:  pac604 [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:52 am ]
Post subject:  While They're Talking
How do you guys approach a set that are already in mid-conversation?

I always feel like they'll say something like "we're busy. you're rude. you've just interupted us."

However, when I'm in mid-convo with my friends and someone butts in, we usually don't mind.
Author:  The Omega Man [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:17 pm ]
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I often have a similar dilemma. I try to wait til a lull or brief silence in their dialogue.
Remember that girls out in bars/clubs do secretly want to be opened, so it doesn't really matter if you interrupt IMO.
Author:  Jammaster [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:37 pm ]
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I often have a similar dilemma. I try to wait til a lull or brief silence in their dialogue.
Remember that girls out in bars/clubs do secretly want to be opened, so it doesn't really matter if you interrupt IMO.
Just be polite.

Says "sorry to inturrupt but..." or "Excuse me a second".

place a hand on a shoulder or tap her elbow!

Easy peasey

:D
Author:  paradiseracing [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:46 pm ]
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I often have a similar dilemma. I try to wait til a lull or brief silence in their dialogue.
Remember that girls out in bars/clubs do secretly want to be opened, so it doesn't really matter if you interrupt IMO.
Just be polite.

Says "sorry to inturrupt but..." or "Excuse me a second".

place a hand on a shoulder or tap her elbow!

Easy peasey

:D
I disagree, saying "excuse me" shows weakness. Don't be afraid to take up space, just don't be rude about it. I usually start my opening with, "real quick...." or "I need you're opinion, real quick" Just don't forget to come in with more energy. That being said, use your common sense. If one of the girls is upset, might be wise to give this set time to cool down. Don't forget, it's only 3 seconds.
Author:  Solomon II [ Mon Feb 09, 2009 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: While They're Talking
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How do you guys approach a set that are already in mid-conversation?
The exact same way as I would if they weren't having a conversation. As a matter of fact, how often are people in a group not talking? :roll:
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I always feel like they'll say something like "we're busy. you're rude. you've just interupted us."
Well, put yourself in their shoes... oh wait...
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However, when I'm in mid-convo with my friends and someone butts in, we usually don't mind.
... looks like you already did that. So why are you even asking this? Stop worrying so damn much. And stop thinking so hard.
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