Hey guys, whats up. I will introduce myself. My alias is "Simple". This (SeekNDestroy) is an alternative nickname, because the other nickname was already used by another fellow here in the forum. Im from Chile (sorry about my bad english sometimes) and Im writing a method about the danceflor, a place that a lot of PUAs avoid. Why is this?:
-Music is too loud, its hard to establish a conversation
-Girls are there to dance, not to chat (there are a few exceptions)
-You don't know how to dance?
-You don't know how to aproach?
-You want to talk to her while you are dancing, but don't know what to say?
Im assuming some of these things are happening to you. If thats the case, continue reading. If thats not the case, continue reading
(there may be useful things you might want to use).Rule number 1
FIrst of all, we are going to change our attitude. There are 4 important things we have to take with us into the dancefloor, and don't even think about stepping in without them:
-The desire to have the night of your life
-Confidence
-A smile on your face
-Lets rock this club
Very easy
Now, I'll put it like this. Once you have those 4 in your pockets, its time to rock:
Imagine every single person inside the dancefloor is painted by one of these two colors:
Red (High Energy)
Red people are having a lot of fun. You can see 3 HBs dancing like crazy. They are red. You also can see a huge circle of 7 friends dancing and having fun. They are all smiling and singing. They are also red. People in red are enjoying the hell out of them. So, you are red, and VERY red.
Blue (Low Energy)
Blue people are bored. They dont enjoy the music, they just dance because the payed for it. They dont smile, and ocasionally look from side to side because his/her dancing partner is too boring. They dont move too much while dancing and it looks like if they were dancing by heart. These are easy to persuade! They WANT to have fun, but they can't, because you havent arrived yet.
Your Mission
Your mission will be to dance with the girl you want. But to achieve that, first we have to convert BLUE people into RED people. So from the moment you step in the danceflor you are RED like pepper. You shout, you dance while you walk, you smile, you sing. If you see BLUE people walking in your opposite direction, you shout to them: "This club is fucking crazyyyyyy! Yeaaahhh!" And you smile to them. They smile back. They turned a little RED !
Now you start dancing alone and having fun with yourself. You are so concentrated in the music that you close your eyes and make some dance moves. If you dont know how to dance or you are just not good at it, remember, ITS NOT BIG DEAL. You are having fun, and thats attractive.
Now people start to look at you, and suddenly you see 3 BLUE HBs dancing next to you, one of them is your target. You ass bump her (hit her ass with yours. This is called a non-verbal opener. Try non-verbal operners always). She looks at you and you smile. Now she smiles. Now she is RED ! And now you start dancing with her. You demonstrated confidence, you are having fun, you are smiling, of course she wants to dance with you
.Remember, if you are not RED, then it will be very difficult to succeed in the dancefloor. If you want to dance with RED HBs, you MUST be RED too.
Ok, this is a piece of my method, I hope you like it, its a long method though, and because Im from South America, its kind of hard to translate it to english. So probably I made a lot of mistakes here. Sorry about that!
See you around guys, bye
Not allowing girls to think they can easily get a dance with you.