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Author:  Moreno [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:44 am ]
Post subject:  What happens if she has a boyfriend
Gentlemen,Alexander here and today i'll make a great
deal into solving once and for all this boyfriend problem

For women it is natural to have boyfriends
It is natural also to have long-term relationships with them
It is also natural to break up with their boyfriends and
start a new relationship with someone else

But why does that happen actually?

From your point of view it's like
having a relationship with an HB7
and a woman of HB9 comes into your life
so what do you do?
It's simple mathematics people,
you break up the 7 and start the relationship with the 9

But for women it's not all about this outlook we possess
it's all about the Demonstrations of Higher Value

So what's the point i want to make?
YOU MUST FOCUS LESS ON FINDING OUT WHETHER
SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND OR NOT,
AND MORE ON EMBEDING THESE DHV SPIKES IN YOUR STORIES
YOU MUST FOCUS ON CREATING A BETTER IMPRESSION ABOUT YOU
AND NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT THE POSSIBILITIES
OF SHE BEING WITH A BOYFRIEND...

Let me ask you this:
If you were Brad Pitt, would you fucking care
if a girl rated HB10 had a boyfriend
if you were at a bar and she came to you
and started talking to you?

You would not...because you assume her boyfriend
is lower value than you, and she's just
trying to get into a relationship with a higher
value man

Any dick will do for her, but not all dicks are the same
some come up with great social value
and that's what women are looking for

There is actually an important note here
regarding boyfriends:
THE MORE TIME SHE IS IN A RELATION SHIP
WITH A BOYFRIEND
THE SOONER YOU'LL HAVE TO START DEMONSTRATING VALUE

you see,because of talking to you and already having a
long term relationship,
deep inside she realises,
whether you came direct or indirect
that you're interested in her sexually

She is judging values at that moment talking to you,
she's judging her boyfriend's value and your value

The moment your value overpasses his value,
it's the moment she'll start thinking about breaking up with him
or at least forming a secret relationship without beeing seen.

Even if she says at some point..."well, i've got a boyfriend"
you will not give any credit to that,
it may even be a shit test for you,
in order to see how you will respond

So next time you get into the set, it's good to know
how are the relationships going with them,
but PLEASE, for CRYIN' OUT LOUD,
DO NOT ASK THEM IF THEY HAVE A BOYFRIEND OR NOT
FUCUS ON DEMONSTRATING HIGHER VALUE
SO THAT SHE WILL TAKE HERSELF THE DECISION
WHETHER TO BREAK UP WITH HIM, OR FORM A
SECRET RELATIONSHIP

Peace,Moreno
Author:  Royale389 [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 9:30 pm ]
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good writeup. Who gives a fuck if they got a boy, Show those girls you're the catch and they'll leave there boyfriend in no time.
Author:  Rhum [ Tue Feb 03, 2009 10:22 pm ]
Post subject: 
I think there is a post about this already.

Nonetheless, are you telling me that if I was married and had an HB10 and an HB11 came along that I should divorce and take her right away? It's never simple mathematics.

Not only that, people believe that they don't care about the BF. Some people have a firm rule about leaving her better then he found her. If you believe in that rule, you shouldn't intrude on a LTR just because you want to fuck someone tonight.

Not the mention, that you might think you're the shit but you might be playing against a natural or a crazy mother fucker who would eat your babies.

Think before you do this.
Author:  Sun of Nothing [ Wed Feb 04, 2009 6:08 am ]
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Don't push too hard though. I recently was gaming a girl who had a boyfriend and I may have pushed a little too much and she went into defensive mode and that was the end of that. Won't make that mistake again, all I said was:

Me: Hey, put down the phone, I'm here, he's somewhere else. Forget about him.
Girl: No! I can't just hang up on him.
Me: Oh is he that needy?

to which she took offense. So whatever.
Author:  JasonLloyd [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 11:02 am ]
Post subject:  lol
since i started talking to girls (2 years ago) ive always been the shoulder to cry on, about blah blah blah my boyfriend cheated on me with 2 girls but i love him blah blah blah and it pissed me off. i realised to get out of this crappy frame of being the shoulder, i just dont talk about their boyfriends and divert their attention elsewhere. i was talking on facebook to girl about psychology. we talked for over an hour it was a great convo, i was running NLP on her. and i was tellin her i was doing it but she still didnt mind. long story short, she didnt mention her boyfriend in this conversatoin about PSYCHOLOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS til about 45 minutes in. and all she said was "my boyfriends younger" that was lierally it
just avoid the topic of the boyfriend.
thts how i try and work it
it can get uncomfortable anyway
like "ahh my boyfriend does the same thing" what are you sposed to say? its just odd


also, couple tips
"i have a boyfriend" you reply with "so do i"
should get a laugh, and when you get to the number close, if she asks about you supposedly being gay, you say sarcastically, some little yarn like
"oh yeh. im SO gay, we should have like a girly night in where we do eachothers hair and makeup but then we can go out, and when we come home drunk and regret kissing those boys at the club, we can watch PS i love you, and eat ben and jerrys whilst crying about boys :-D"


may seem a bit long but i literally use that all the time. can depend on the girl though, one i used it on didnt like chick flicks or ice cream, so once i said it i said it again but said horror movies and chocolate.

emo girls generally dont like chick flicks, because they want to be different (kind of ironic dont you think)

iif a boyfriend comes up while your talking to a girl
engage the boyf in something boring to the girl
cars, college, his course, sport
whatever the fuck you want
after a few minutes hell be engaged with ypou to let you stay in the convo
and you canget back to her
a good line thats non threatening is "give me your addy, i'll add you on msn"
get the boyfriends as well
then before you can jibbom
youve got an email close and that boyf didnt know it
BAM


thats all for now

The Shred

(any feedback on my two cents would be great thanks)
Author:  DukeSpirit [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 11:44 pm ]
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love it, shred. game on!
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