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Author:  linkgrim [ Mon Jan 26, 2009 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:  day mall opener
what do you think of this? couldnt sleep last night so i came up with this:

walking down the mall
doing challenge number one
"hey", "hi", "how you doin"

you spot a target.
U: hey wats up
U: high 5!(immediatley after)
....
if she gives you the 5 you turn around right away
U:hey hold on.
she turns to you
U: hey are you ok?
HB: yea y?
U: your face is all pale and colorless, its like your about to faint or somethin...(will make her self concious and esecially right after dropping her arm after the high five, the blood will quite literally rush to her arm, not enough 2 make her faint but enough for her to exaggerate the feeling and be honestly distressed.)(also may be a neg opener dont know)

U:hey maybe you should sit down(if she dont want to i dont know how to continue.)(maybe some kino)

U: Listen wait here let me go get you some water or something.
(your wing is waiting with a brand new water bottle in his backpack. it would be even funnier if he pretended to be a random guy and you stole his water to give it to her.)(grab water)
U: here drink this.
after drink
ask for her hand to check her pulse.(kinooooo)
U: are you feeling any dizziness at the moment?
wait 4 her answer
U: your going to be ok, your pulse is fine...
(maybe throw in a neg such as i think its just your makeup)
HB:blabla
U: i seriously thought you were about to faint though, reminds of the time i donated blood my first time...(tell story)
(fluff some)
U:i really have to go meet some friends, we really need to continue this later. Very Happy
(hopefully NUMBER CLOSE)
(kiss goodbye?)<maybe


what you guys think add or subtract anything?
Author:  Fr33stylez [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 8:26 am ]
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Heyy man,
thats not that bad, but i think you're relying abit too heavily on afew things.
1: She may be reluctant to give u hi5
2: the blood rush feeling may not be noticed by her at all, seeing merely the act of raising your arm to recieve a high 5 is not necessarily enough to make her believe that she might faint even with your convincing.
3: Overall, it relies too heavily on her compliance but other than that, i think u shuld ield test it and see how it goes, sounds good :)
well done!

Fr33stylez
Author:  cn_bn [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 1:52 pm ]
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So with challenge number one, you just go around saying hi to every girl? What if they think you are weird?
Author:  Fr33stylez [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:54 pm ]
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well she still may think it friendly, depending on how you say it. But all i'm saying is that you say hi to her, you require her compliance to say hi again, you raise ur hand for a hi5, you require her compliance once again, and she may not be ready to comply so much so soon to someone she's never met before. You could however get away with it with a high energy level, therefore dragging her into the fun of the situation too, but other than that, it would be hard to pull it off.
Fr33stylez
Author:  daggaz [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 1:21 am ]
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Try field testing it. You are going to get blown out all the time, no offense.

It does demand too much compliance right off the bat, and not just any compliance...

Assuming she hi-5s you (we will skip that compliance step, since we assume you are trying this on a lot of girls until you get one who does)

First she has to accept that she is pale and weak. Alot, if not most girls are going to be confident enough to think, wtf is this guy talking about? They will then give you that look.

Second, this is really a very negative way to start the situation on. Its not even a neg, as it is really almost a direct put-down. "You look all pale." It would be an absolute put down if you werent supposedly saying it for her benefit.

Third, you are going to go get her some water. Wow. How nice and AFC of you (this DLVs you at this point in the game, btw), but not only that

Fourth, she has to trust you enough, a total stranger, to actually drink that water? Especially when you wierd tag along buddy pulls it out of his bag all ready for her? Even if you let her open it herself, I dont know a lot of girls who would do this, ever. Not in this day and age, not from a total 3 second stranger who opened her funny like that.

Fifth, ok now you are just playing doctor... I dont know.. if she went along this far into it, wow, just ask her to take down her panties and show you hers and you will show her yours? This step just screams FAKE to me.

-Insert DHV story. Lets pray its better than this opener.-

Sixth, You insert a time constraint, only you are inserting it at the end of your opener. THe idea is to mention in the very beginning, thats the whole point, to relieve their anxiety of "oh my god do i have to talk to this guy for how long?" so that you can get your point across.

Seventh, and Finally, You now leave and magically expect a number or even a kiss close, without getting hardly anywhere past A1??? Serious?? On that?


So those are my issues with it. Im not meaning to burn you hard or anything, just being honest. Really what bothers me the most is all the positive responses from other members who dont seem to know what they are commenting about. Guys, if you dont know.....FIELD TEST IT FIRST! Dont just comment and say "yeah cool story!"

The point of these forums is to share information, not to spread mistakes.
Author:  daggaz [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 1:24 am ]
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Quote:
So with challenge number one, you just go around saying hi to every girl? What if they think you are weird?
I do that ALL the time. Its a great way to begin destroying Approach Anxiety, its great fun when they actually respond enough to warrant a conversation, and you can meet some fun girls that way so dont ever give up on it even when you are a mPUA.

Also, who cares if they think you are weird? They are strangers, they cant affect your life. Do you want to live under your fear, like a worm under a rock, or do you want to get out there and enjoy the sunshine? That is the whole point of approach challenges. So forget about what they might think of you, and just go out and approach.
Author:  ...SoDamnAddictive [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 2:34 pm ]
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Gotta agree with the above =)

The only way to get good at something is practice and in the case of PUAing you really gotta get over the fact that you gonna get rejected every now and then...So yeah, take every opportunity to talk to, say hi to...hell, High 5 girls if you have to ;) Cuz once you got the basics down everything else is a Sh*t load easier to pull off
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