PUA Forum :: Approaching a dancing group of girls at a club?

uhhh WHAT?!... okay.. this is my experience.. just walk into the group.. have a fun attitude.. act like you just found a group that's havin fun as much as you.. and just dance with them.. simple! just have a great vibe on you that and not the type that wants to grind on each women in that circle! have fun.. and in a good situation.. you will have 4 or 5 girls grinding on you at the same time! hahha.. manwich!!!

Remember this, girls are on the dance floor to dance. Guys are on the dance floor to dance with girls.

That can be flipped very easily by pretending you want nothing more than to dance to the song that is playing.

Face with your back to your target and bump into her with your elbow.

Then give off a good neg by telling her to watch where she's dancing (in a playful way obviously) and that she's making you miss your favorite song.

Excellent opener that I use frequently, whether or not I really like the song.

Sometimes its even better if its a ridiculous song that you obviously wouldn't be that into, the more terrible it is, the more you insist its the best song ever!

Yeah having a good vibe and high fun energy about you is very important.
Not only does it have girls coming up to you, it also has guys coming up to you lol. I had this guy come up to me shake my hand and became dancing wingmen for each other for the nite lol. He was a nice kid. So high energy attracts girls and guys, both of which increases your social proof and status.
I even asked the guy why the hell he came up to me later one, and he said it was because i had a good energy and vibe about me - i'm certain that girls would look for the same thing

Author:	Fr33stylez [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 3:56 pm ]
Post subject:	Approaching a dancing group of girls at a club?
Heyy guys, i just came back from a club tonite, and i found myself unable to successfully attract/approach a target whilst in a group on the dance floor. Any suggestions on what to do? For the record i am actually a pretty good dancer, so could i use this to my advantage on the approach, etc.? Cheers, Fr33stylez

Author:	Adster [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:57 pm ]
Post subject:
Dear God man! It's a trap! Every one of those women knew what effect they were going to have as soon as they stepped on the dance floor, heck they even planned to do this before they got to the club. What is more appealing than slinky, flexible highly attractive women dancing together and without male company on the dance floor? You've got to have some pretty solid game and be congruent with your goals to pull this off. In these cases, if you try to dance with girls like that, then you've immediately lost value due to your approval seeking. You're walking up to them and immediately saying to them "I want you to dance with me because I like you and I want you to see that and I want everyone in the nightclub to know that you like me and be jealous of me." All of that, said in one single moment of you walking up to them without even dancing. Then there's the fallout after she shoots you down (and I've seen this happen way too many times) that you get emasculated and walk off with your tail between your legs. Unless you have the skills of someone from "Step Up", I suggest you don't let yourself get pulled in.

Author:	Majishan [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:
uhhh WHAT?!... okay.. this is my experience.. just walk into the group.. have a fun attitude.. act like you just found a group that's havin fun as much as you.. and just dance with them.. simple! just have a great vibe on you that and not the type that wants to grind on each women in that circle! have fun.. and in a good situation.. you will have 4 or 5 girls grinding on you at the same time! hahha.. manwich!!!

Author:	Fr33stylez [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: uhhh WHAT?!... okay.. this is my experience.. just walk into the group.. have a fun attitude.. act like you just found a group that's havin fun as much as you.. and just dance with them.. simple! just have a great vibe on you that and not the type that wants to grind on each women in that circle! have fun.. and in a good situation.. you will have 4 or 5 girls grinding on you at the same time! hahha.. manwich!!! haha yeah thats what i ended up doing, i just walked up and joined their circle. The were pretty open to it, and were sorta dancing with a fun attitude as well, although i think i paid abit too much attention to the target haha. Then some random guy came up to me and introduced himself to me and distracted me from the girls, they probs thought i forgot bout them and wlked off loll. that son of a bitch! Fr33stylez

Author:	Stems [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:
check out juice24's thread on here it good shit... theres a few things u can do but u will probably have to get the whole group to approve of u first before u go for the target... try high 5s they work well or butt bumps. If she bumps back u can challenge her to a dance off or sumthin like that... dance floor is not a trap. i reckon its probably THE best place for rapid kino escalation and u can almost guarantee every single HB will go there at some point in the night. Any PUA can sarge but how many can dance?

PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/

Approaching a dancing group of girls at a club? https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=51&t=37930	Page 1 of 1

Author:	FadedGabe [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 1:13 am ]
Post subject:
Remember this, girls are on the dance floor to dance. Guys are on the dance floor to dance with girls. That can be flipped very easily by pretending you want nothing more than to dance to the song that is playing. Face with your back to your target and bump into her with your elbow. Then give off a good neg by telling her to watch where she's dancing (in a playful way obviously) and that she's making you miss your favorite song. Excellent opener that I use frequently, whether or not I really like the song. Sometimes its even better if its a ridiculous song that you obviously wouldn't be that into, the more terrible it is, the more you insist its the best song ever!

Author:	Majishan [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 5:31 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: Remember this, girls are on the dance floor to dance. Guys are on the dance floor to dance with girls. That can be flipped very easily by pretending you want nothing more than to dance to the song that is playing. Face with your back to your target and bump into her with your elbow. Then give off a good neg by telling her to watch where she's dancing (in a playful way obviously) and that she's making you miss your favorite song. Excellent opener that I use frequently, whether or not I really like the song. Sometimes its even better if its a ridiculous song that you obviously wouldn't be that into, the more terrible it is, the more you insist its the best song ever! good point as well.. if you are just having fun.. even by yourself and not caring.. having a vibe like this will attract girls as well.. I was at the club with my boys in L.A. and we were on a dance floor. Acting AFCs, they were leaning by the speakers looking for "girls" (i'm not sure if they were blind or not.. we were at the DANCEFLOOR) I was like "F-this" and just went 10 feet away from them and started dancing. (hyphy music.. hahah i'm from the BAY) Two girls just came up to me and started dancing. Friends saw this and was like WTF? (I mean my friends are like skinny, good looking guys. I'm a big guy)I wasn't actually feeling one of the girls, so i backed off her when she was grinding on me.. I pointed to my friends to dance with them. They started dancing but I guess the girls got bored, and left them. oh wells!

Author:	Fr33stylez [ Thu Jan 29, 2009 11:25 pm ]
Post subject:
Yeah having a good vibe and high fun energy about you is very important. Not only does it have girls coming up to you, it also has guys coming up to you lol. I had this guy come up to me shake my hand and became dancing wingmen for each other for the nite lol. He was a nice kid. So high energy attracts girls and guys, both of which increases your social proof and status. I even asked the guy why the hell he came up to me later one, and he said it was because i had a good energy and vibe about me - i'm certain that girls would look for the same thing

Author:	pillow_fight [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 1:56 am ]
Post subject:
Quote: Yeah having a good vibe and high fun energy about you is very important. Not only does it have girls coming up to you, it also has guys coming up to you lol. I had this guy come up to me shake my hand and became dancing wingmen for each other for the nite lol. He was a nice kid. So high energy attracts girls and guys, both of which increases your social proof and status. I even asked the guy why the hell he came up to me later one, and he said it was because i had a good energy and vibe about me - i'm certain that girls would look for the same thing Same thing kinda happened to me once. I was dancing it up and my friends leave and I just go to dance near these other people and they're all just coming closer and I got lots of smiles and IOIs from this girl but didn't pursue because I was having fun and her BF came a bit later and made out with her, her guy friend was really digging the fact that I was having a ton of fun with whoever.

Author:	Fr33stylez [ Fri Jan 30, 2009 2:39 am ]
Post subject:
haha niiice. I suppose it brings us all back to the first rule of anything Pick up related, and anything in general, HAVE FUN, and the rest will come

Page 1 of 1	All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/