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DANCE FLOOR TUTORIAL *FOR ALL BEGINNERS*
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Author:  wisconsinman [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  DANCE FLOOR TUTORIAL *FOR ALL BEGINNERS*
Ok, before I start this tutorial let me start off by saying I am no expert at being a PUA, or a Womanizer, I only started learning months ago.
That being said im also not an idiot :-P. Before we start let me give you a little background info about myself, I live in Miami and im a DJ at clubs.
So I know my way around the dancefloor.

I am writing this guide for all those guys who are scared to go on the dance floor, because I used to be like you. But I got over my fears and so can you. For the love of god try and listen to this guide, I garuntee it will help turn the dance floor from your worst enemy into your best friend. :)

Alright so lets begin, visualize this scene in your mind. The bouncer at the entrance just finishes checking you and he gives the all clear for you too be let in the club. As you walk in you feel the electricity in the air, your heart is beating louder then the music and you can almost taste the energy of 100+ women waiting for a REAL man to come up to them and show them a good time.

You see the dance floor there are tons of beautiful girls EVERYWHERE. But your nervous and shy, what if they reject me? What if they blow me off and everyone sees. But this night is different, this night you want to turn your brain off and turn all your fears off and jut go out there and dance.

STEP NUMBER 1. Turning your fears and resentment OFF. Try and repeat some metaphors or quotes to yourself, its only one night out of your life that you will do this so it doesn't matter. Fuck what happens, if you get rejected by 9 girls and flirted with 10, that means you got one girl.

If you can think about your club experience in those terms then congratulations because you passed Step 1.

STEP NUMBER 2. Find a target and approach.
After all your fears and inhibitions are gone, you are finally ready to move on. Step Number 2 is the biggest sticking point for everyone, because it involves the biggest risk factor. Once you find a target within in 3 seconds of acknowledging her you must approach, give her eye contact (look up left eye stare) navigate your hands to her waste and move side to side with her. The one thing that will make this girl want you is not looks, its not dance skills, IT CONFIDENCE! I cannot stress that point enough.

STEP NUMBER 3. So your dancing with the girl now, and its been a good 5 to 10 minutes. You should be feeling very confident at this point, now this where you move in. Take your hands and gently move them around her thighs, almost like massaging them. Try and act as sexually as possible build attraction this is KEY.

STEP NUMBER 4. Move on to her neck just start by breathing hard onto her neck then gentle light kisses.

STEP NUMBER 5. If she is still dancing with you now your in the clear. She's DTK (Down to Kiss) But don't start celebrating yet...passionatley escelate with the kisses on her neck make them more fierce, now take your hand and put it on her waist, while still kissing her neck move her gently facing you and then kiss her.

BONUS STEP 6. If you want to take her to a private spot, do it like an Alpha male, nod in the direction of where you want too go, make sure she understands that. And just start walking in that direction 9 out of 10 times SHE WILL FOLLOW YOU. It has never failed me before :)

Well guys, I hope you enjoyed my guide to the dance floor, I hope you learned something from reading it and if it works let me know :)
I have used this exact routine countless times and every time I used it I always ended up having a good night ;-) if you know what I mean.

Happy Sarging Guys, Sharkoffs.
Author:  wisconsinman [ Sun Dec 28, 2008 11:33 pm ]
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Errr....wish i could get some comments on this :P
Author:  shyguy85 [ Mon Dec 29, 2008 3:20 am ]
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I went dancing 2 nights ago and I wish I would have read this first. I got to step 3 because it was natural, but I didn't escalate so I lost every set. But I had a great time doing it. Next time I will step up and try a little more.
Author:  wisconsinman [ Mon Dec 29, 2008 4:46 pm ]
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Haha use it next time bro :) It works :D
Author:  rlouisj7 [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 3:22 am ]
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this is great, i agree its tootally all about confidence. thats really my sticking point. the way i approach is that i will approach from the side, put my hand on her lower back and ask her to dance. i feel that when i ask her to dance it lacks a certain energy/confidence. also if i get rejected a few times ill be a little down and put less effort into the apporach.
Author:  d.humper [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:48 am ]
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Instead of asking, try telling. Just be like, "Hey, dance with me."
Author:  hurley509 [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 11:52 am ]
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the left eye stare? please explain someone!
Author:  wisconsinman [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 4:19 pm ]
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No! DO NOT ASK That is KEY!, you tell them you want to dance by grabbing them and just starting. This makes you look like you have alot of confidence and alot of balls. Very Alpha and scores points on the road to the KC.
Author:  wisconsinman [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:55 pm ]
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the left eye stare? please explain someone!
It's when you turn your head slightly to the right and give them a sexy stare.
Author:  rlouisj7 [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:58 pm ]
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u kno, i ask a lot of my female friends how they like to be approached on the dancefloor and mostly all of them like it when u verbally ask them. thats what they tell me. but i think it is better to be the confident guy that doesnt ask and let his actions do the talking. i usually verbally ask and its really 50/50 sometimes lower
Author:  wisconsinman [ Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:07 am ]
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u kno, i ask a lot of my female friends how they like to be approached on the dancefloor and mostly all of them like it when u verbally ask them. thats what they tell me. but i think it is better to be the confident guy that doesnt ask and let his actions do the talking. i usually verbally ask and its really 50/50 sometimes lower
One of the most important rules in LIFE, is that Women never mean what they say.

Do you know how many girls say they want a nice guy, who will conform to their will? Yeah exactly, women don't want the "nice" guy. They want a cocky funny guy who can trigger attraction and the sexuality inside them.
Author:  rlouisj7 [ Wed Dec 31, 2008 2:21 am ]
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my problem is that i jus dont wanna go all or nothing to her by confidently dancing up to her only for her to go out of her way to akwardly deny me.
Author:  wisconsinman [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 5:43 pm ]
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my problem is that i jus dont wanna go all or nothing to her by confidently dancing up to her only for her to go out of her way to akwardly deny me.
Then what are you going to do bro? Go up to her and ask her traditionally to dance and get awkwardly denied verbally?

Comon man there has to be a day where you step up with the confidence and mindset of a true PUA and just go for it. And when you truly are able to achieve that, then a girl rejecting you won't even be a problem.

You just have to go out there with confidence and if you get rejected and fall on your ass you get back up there and try again with new girls. If you use this technique with confidence and an alpha male mindset I garuntee it will work EVERTIME for you.

You have to put yourself out there if you don't, then you will never know what it feels like to be rejected or get a girl.

It's time to step up and be a man, go for it man. And remember one thing, their just girls bro, their little teeny tiny inseucure girls who want a MAN like you to get in there and take charge.

Happy Sarging Friend, Sharkoffs.
Author:  Majishan [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:19 pm ]
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this actually makes sense.. you just have to have an alpha male mindset and everything will go your way... i mean.. back in the day when i use to go clubbin with my friends almost every weekend.. i used to get denied by these girls when i ask.. i mean yeah sometimes i get the lucky.. but it's different when you take charge.. for example.. this one night me and my boys went clubbin.. i don't know what was going on but i felt pumped that night.. i felt really confident.. i actually opened a four set that night.. so that really boosted my confidence.. by the time i was at the dance floor.. doing my two step.. saw this girl about to walk past by me.. lookin for her friends.. then when she was in front of me.. i grabbed her to get her attention.. gave her a smile and told her to dance with me.. wouldn't you know.. she did! i mean that night was great... but..

if i had this guide.. at least it would've escalated a bit more.. after the song was over we left it at that.. i didn't know what else to do that's why.. but still.. i had fun! great mentality.. and positive attitude!! next time they better watch out! lol!
Author:  wisconsinman [ Fri Jan 02, 2009 9:19 pm ]
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this actually makes sense.. you just have to have an alpha male mindset and everything will go your way... i mean.. back in the day when i use to go clubbin with my friends almost every weekend.. i used to get denied by these girls when i ask.. i mean yeah sometimes i get the lucky.. but it's different when you take charge.. for example.. this one night me and my boys went clubbin.. i don't know what was going on but i felt pumped that night.. i felt really confident.. i actually opened a four set that night.. so that really boosted my confidence.. by the time i was at the dance floor.. doing my two step.. saw this girl about to walk past by me.. lookin for her friends.. then when she was in front of me.. i grabbed her to get her attention.. gave her a smile and told her to dance with me.. wouldn't you know.. she did! i mean that night was great... but..

if i had this guide.. at least it would've escalated a bit more.. after the song was over we left it at that.. i didn't know what else to do that's why.. but still.. i had fun! great mentality.. and positive attitude!! next time they better watch out! lol!
Trust me man, when girls go too a club they want somone to take charge.
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