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Author:  blacksniper [ Thu May 10, 2007 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  wot 2du if she stares at u,part 2,plz help.
hi evry1. i have a problem with 1 chic in ma college. she always keeps staring at me in the library n even on the school hallway. does it mean that she likes me n she's interested. because if she daz den she would have alrdy approached me n atleast say hi to me. i dont have the balls cause she's the hottest girl in school. what should i do the next time she stares at me in the library? plz help
Author:  osiris [ Thu May 10, 2007 8:56 pm ]
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ask her for help with some book for some class or personal reading. whats the worst that can happen... well the worst is you dont approach and then you keep regretting it while some other douche bag gets her. Heck even ask for help on some homework, tell her whatever shes reading is an awesome book, then bullshit her if you havent read it.
Author:  Romeo7 [ Thu May 10, 2007 9:22 pm ]
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Ok,

Are you baby crying here?

Let me tell you this, if I or any other PUA here gives you the best thing to say to her, it won't work if you don't change that WUSSY attitude!

Ok, so stop kissing ass

I know, tough love, but it's good sometimes

Now to what you should do

1. Get over your fear of rejection
If she stares if you, is not by coincidence, got it?

2. Approach boldly
"If you're gonna be staring at me like that, you may as well come talk to me"

DO IT, I WANNA SEE YOUR RESULTS
Author:  Giacomo [ Thu May 10, 2007 11:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Giacomo's opinion
I agree with Romeo here.
But I have also got success from something I picked up whilst watching David Tennant in 'Casanova'.
It's playful and it breaks the ice ready for a nice, smooth approach.

Simply catch her eye, look around you as if she might be looking past you, then look her in the eyes again and mouth the word 'What?'.

Its a bit of a work in progress but ive used it five or so times now and for one of them the girl shyed up and pretended she wasnt staring at me and the others all smiled in which case I have just shaken my head like she was crazy and opened them a few minutes later with a variation of openers.

The reason for the eye thing is just to break the ice a little. And it must be done with a playful, cocky attitude. Otherwise theres a possibility you may come off as a little weird.

Sounds a little different I know but it seems to work. Like you two are in your own little quiet world.
Author:  excitement [ Fri May 11, 2007 12:37 am ]
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Romeo is right you need to work on your inner game. You need to develop the attitude 'i can have any girl i want', thats what being a PUA is all about. If you dont start changing the way you think, success for you will be very challenging, but you can do it!
You say that she keeps staring at you - well that is just one IOI, i generally try and find two or three but just approach her anyway. If she is an HB 9 or 10 and she has the eye of all the guys in the college shes going to need some negging to lower her value. But open with something like "Wow dont you know its rude to stare (with a smart-smile), but dont worry ill let you off this time". Make sure you dont come off like you want her and ensure the first convo is very brief. On your second convo you should tell her to meet you somewhere at a specified time. Build Kino from the very beginning.
Author:  Chilly T [ Fri May 11, 2007 7:00 am ]
Post subject:  Just do it
I agree with romeo, stop been a wuss and just go do it. your never going to get anywhere or anything by standing there hoping that shes gonna grow sum balls and go talk to you.

I had a friend who was simmilar to you, he only got girls every now and then and they werent the best quality, so i finally told him just go hit on, talk to, make a pass at almost every hot girl he see's. he did and now you would think that hes was a born PUA with all the PUA gift given to him by God himself!

So just go do it... using an opening will make u more interesting but if you can think of anything just go up to her and say "HI" :D
Author:  blacksniper [ Fri May 11, 2007 9:50 am ]
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hey thnxs guys. am going to work on it right taway and give you the results soon!
Author:  Sovnarkom [ Fri May 11, 2007 1:52 pm ]
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Hey just -hi- her mate is a good one a honest one
Author:  Monkey [ Fri May 11, 2007 3:11 pm ]
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Repeat after me:

Hi. You're creepy.

Say it with a big smile on your face. If she's constantly staring at you, then yes, she likes you. Or, at the very least, she likes looking at you. People don't tend to do something they dislike more often than they absolutely need to. Do you stare at ugly girls? Not very often, I'm sure.

It should also be noted: this is how girls feel when we're staring at them. If you're not a hideous guy, she's wondering when you're going to come talk to her, because if you ARE interested in her, you're going to come talk to her. Funny, ne?

For years, I had this strange notion that if I sat in the bar looking cool enough, chicks would walk up and talk to me. I remember one night in particular, I just got off of work, and I was standing around in a suit, and a hot girl just walked up and started grinding with me.

I couldn't think of anything to say. I acted like she'd given me the gift of life. And it's never happened since. No matter how often I go to a bar in a suit, girls do not approach me. Why? Because they get approach anxiety. Or because they're not interested in me. I personally believe the former, because I'm damned pretty in a suit.

If she's staring at you, go talk to her. If you're staring at her, go talk to her. That's just the way these things work.
Author:  Sovnarkom [ Fri May 11, 2007 3:44 pm ]
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No matter how often I go to a bar in a suit, girls do not approach me. Why? Because they get approach anxiety.
Monkey is 100% right Girls suffer of approach anxiety such as u, plus they are waiting for U to go Talk to them, U R the Guy, their ASD keeps them away even though she might be dying for U Do asi said Just Grab ur Balls And say Hi.

PEacock ur self be cool B alpha and as monkey said they will be just waiting for U. its all about inner game mate if u R sure about u U R half way in, jus grab ur nuts and hi her thats all mate
Author:  blacksniper [ Fri May 11, 2007 5:34 pm ]
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am really getting confident after reading ur reply's guys. and thnx monkey for the tip. i think thats my problem too because whenever i go out clubbin all this HB9 N 10'S keep staring at me but i never approached them because i thought i was attractive and they were the ones to be approaching me.
Author:  rakinishu [ Sat May 26, 2007 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Giacomo's opinion
Quote:

Simply catch her eye, look around you as if she might be looking past you, then look her in the eyes again and mouth the word 'What?'.

The reason for the eye thing is just to break the ice a little. And it must be done with a playful, cocky attitude. Otherwise theres a possibility you may come off as a little weird.

Sounds a little different I know but it seems to work. Like you two are in your own little quiet world.
...yeah, did this quite successfully by accident one time when I was having a blast. Opened adjacent set with "How's everything going", I got #closed. Then this girl was eyeballing me.. I asked "What?" in a tone of 'What are you looking at?' and a smile.. she didn't know what to say..

"You're looking at me like you know me, do i know you?"
"No"
"I'm Raki"
"Ninia"
(shook right hands and my left moved to the small of her back. and she number closed me later.)

..this is in a club though.

..oh, might i advise the original poster to just approach as all of us here suggests? You don't need to wait to get a Solid Inner game before you approach her, Developing Solid Inner Game might take some time. Approaching her is something you can do NOW.

Raki
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www.VinDiCarlo.com
Author:  zim'ster [ Fri Jun 01, 2007 6:00 am ]
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The next time you catch her looking at you walk past her. Stop just behnd her shokllder and turn your head back to face her and say,
"are you going to smile at me the whole time ?( pause ) or are you going to come and say hi..." look at her right in the corner of her eyes. Unless she turns round then look at one eye then the other. ( watch her reaction ) If she dsnt say anything then carry on walking dont wait for an answer. Count to 4/5 then turn and slowly look over your sholder back her her, but when you do let your eyes sweep across the floor as you pass your sholder to look at her. If she's looking give her a cheecky smile and a wink. :)
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