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| Author: | woodchuck [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 6:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | how i beat AA |
hello everyone, I wanna share my experience. I've gone my whole life with AA and social anxiety. I'm in my 20's now. I used to go out every weekend and trying to learn the game. I'm lucky if i even make an approach or two a night. If I made even one approach, the night was a success, close or not. I tried everything. from the talk to 10 strangers in 10 mins, say hello to everybody you meet, think your in a video game, getting drunk from a couple drinks to being wasted, you name it, i tried it. nothing worked. Recently i spoke with a master NLP therapist and he told me I've only been trying to mask my problem. we had a 5 min conversation that went like this ME: i have a problem with social anxiety, i have problems talking to people Therapist: what do you want from other people M: I want them to like me T: what if they don't M: i'm not sure, its my belief everyone does T: is there anybody you don't like M: yes, to the point where i don't want to meet them ever again. T: how do you treat them M: like anybody else T: how do you want them to think of you M: i still want them to like me T: thats your problem, you need to fix your values, you don't respect yourself. through affirmations and submodality changes and understanding my values I can now approach anybody. I've battled this AA feeling my whole life and in the last two weeks i haven't faced it once, while being sober i might add. i wish i could describe how i feel now, and its so amazing that i can't. maybe you had the same problem i did. |
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| Author: | sheeshkabab [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 7:46 am ] |
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i can relate to you .. i probably would have said all the same things you said to the therapist ... my dad would have been that person .... |
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| Author: | dado1234 [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 8:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Woodchuck would you expand on how you got over AA? |
"through affirmations and submodality changes and understanding my values I can now approach anybody" I'm in the same boat, I WANT EVERYONE TO LIKE ME! Give some examples of how of through affirmations and submodality changes you understood your values and now overcame your approach anxiety? |
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| Author: | woodchuck [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 9:55 pm ] |
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dado, i would try and help you. send me an email. (how I beat my aa) yahoo. I assume if you think the way i did, my same strategy should work for you as well. |
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