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| Author: | Ryan44 [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 7:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | I need some serious help |
So This is the part where I can never get enough confidence. I need serious help with the approach and opening. I'm alas.. a virgin. Now I do have knowledge of what I need to do for the most part I just can't seem to put it into action. I can somewhat fake the confidence a bit. But just not enough. Anything immediate I can do to fix this? |
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| Author: | Ray Charles [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 1:27 pm ] |
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I had the same problem and i know what got me over it, I had a waiting job so i needed to talk to alot of people. So what i would do was make eye contact with everyone i served and made small talk. That helped quite a bit. Another thing to do is act confident around your friends before girls. Stand straight up, talk loudly etc. But the best thing to do is make a complete ass of yourself to deliberatley get rejected. For example, go up to a girl in the mall or bar or club or whatever and say something like. You: Hi i just had diorhea, can i get your number? HB: no or You: Do you want to go back to my place? we can order some pizza and have sex" HB: Ew, no! You: ok how bout we order chinese then? Once you know that getting deliberatley rejected has no affect on you you can eject a set and take rejection more easily. Youl realize that "hey im never going to see them again, so who cares" or "Haha, i bet they actualy thought i was being serious!" PM me if you need more help and ill go into more detail. |
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| Author: | Prolific [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 5:29 pm ] |
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It does sound like u have a fear of rejection. re-frame yourself. The girl that your approaching doesnt know ur a virgin so get that stuff out of ur head. as the saying goes. . "I think, therefor I am." So u need to think differently, you are the shit, this girl is lucky u r about to bring her into your world. trying to lose ur viginity can be an intimidating thing when you think about it constantly. First you must do as Rushy has advised, say fuck it, and just go for it. If u fear embarrassment and think everyone is going to know about it, drive to a different town. At first dont set the bar to high for yourself. . an HB 5 is nothing to be ashamed of, ur not going to marry the chick. As a friend of mine who is a natural once put it "You have to slay a few dragons before you get to the princess". So get some practice in, approach some ladies, lose that lack of confidence. You will come to find that Game is much easier when you believe in yourself. U gotta gain a swagger. |
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