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Author:  str8 slootin [ Thu Nov 27, 2008 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  ways to approach when u have a good body

hey guys, happy thanksgiving.

i've always been decent with women, now i'm trying to get really good, learning some of these techniques. i curious though, are there ways to approach using less words, and more just your body if you have a really nice body? i'm 6'4"/6'5" 255 ish, starting to get a really solid, solid body. any of u guys with similar builds have any tips for just using mostly body language to attract? of course, i'll chat her up once i catch her attention, but i want to hook just on body alone. what u guys think?

Author:  V1V [ Thu Nov 27, 2008 8:33 pm ]
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Your body doesnt really affect your approach.

Author:  FNB [ Thu Nov 27, 2008 9:56 pm ]
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Are you a bodybuilder? If you are it's a different thing but I calculated (BMI) that you are not in your best shape. I was myself obese one year ago when I was an AFC but now when I have a bodyfat of around 8% and dark and tall I have noticed a totally different world from my previous life. Either it's because I don't look like I did before or that I have really studied PU for about a year now.

Author:  str8 slootin [ Thu Nov 27, 2008 10:30 pm ]
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well, i wouldn't call myself a bodybuilder, just like most people on here won't call themselves pick up artists.

come on man, you can throw the bmi scale out the window.

my question wasn't, "hey do u think i'm in shape?" it was, does anyone know any good tips/tricks to use body language to get her attracted, so when u approach and talk to her, she's already buying into what ur selling.

btw, good job on getting in shape.

Author:  C-King Guidance [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 12:52 am ]
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WhoaWhoaWhoa, Settle down Muscles McGinsky. Dont roid rage out on us.

I think what youre looking for is this:
"Do you know which way the gym is?" ... or

"Do you have a band-aid, for these cuts?"

refer to Matador if u want tickets to the gun show.

Having Game is the opposite of relying on your physical appearance to get the girl. I suggest work on being witty and funny rather than worrying about how you can tells girls youve never met that you have good body. If u do have a nice physique, Girls Will Notice. You dont have to verbally announce it. In fact, that would be reallllly gay.

But... for the sake of helpin out a fellow, if your hellbent on this approach, you might consider getting a wing (female would be better) to initiate the chat and DHV You before you enter the set, or you could of course just walk around with your shirt off flexing asking chicks if the beach is "THIS way or THAT way?" but i strongly suggest just using other openers and letting them find out about your body later. This can be a good attraction spike during the seduction phase that might subdue LMR.

Author:  C-King Guidance [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 1:05 am ]
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....and body language isnt used to show off your body, its meant to show off your confidence. (leaning back- never pecking, good eye contact, being touchy, sitting with legs spread far apart- take up a lot or room, etc) refer to body language section.

Author:  str8 slootin [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 1:21 am ]
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the only roid rage i get, is hemmoroid rage :P

what i'm trying to find out is if there's a way to create attraction, and sexual tension, just by me standing around being a badass, just doing everyday shit, like standing in line for something. so, i guess this really is more of a body language question, didn't really think what section i posted in.

btw, i had looked into roids before, and roid rage is basically an urban legend. in fact, most guys reported elevated moods while on roids. sammy sosa always seemed so chipper didn't he?

Author:  C-King Guidance [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 2:56 am ]
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lol. dont get all defensive about the roids comment, it was just a joke. I dont really care if u do or dont take steroids.
Anway dude, this is what i think your getting at.

If you were standing in line and cute girl/s was behind you, alpha male body language would entail not turning around to talk to them but rather speak over the shoulder, as to not project too much interest. Social dynamics tells us that people almost always have both feet and chest pointed directly towards the point or person of most interest.
Also, strong eye contact is crutial. a huge sign of confidence and a very strong vehicle for sexual tension.
umm, what else. again in the reply i posted earlier, i mentioned being touchy. If you can touch girls and make it not weird and fun, it is very sexy to women bc it shows a) youre confident b)your familiar with touching girls - DHV c) youre very socially aware d) you use it to gain compliance and escalate sexual tension.
Also leaning back is big: when your sitting down, standing at the bar, waiting for some shit, whatever, look totally comfortable and spread out to take up a lot of room. I think Mystery said whenever your knees are less than like 1.5ft apart youre body language is DLVd.

Your gonna have to say something tho, women do approach men but its rare and a pua must be able to fluidly initate a conversation, so theres really no one magic body language sexy alpha move for attracting women like a magnet.

Research body language, pay attention to how really good puas stand and sit, look into Lovedrop's "Social Vibing"- more mental than physical but awesome. hope this helps. pz

Author:  str8 slootin [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 5:31 am ]
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this is more of the type of response i was looking for.

eye contact, man i have a problem with that one sometimes. i feel like i'm being intimidating. but i'm working on this. i asked hb9 i'm banging on a semi regular basis about my lack of eye contact, she said it wasn't that big of a deal. i understand in some eastern cultures, it's too intimate, etc etc so eye contact is not nearly as common. i must have been chinese in a former life, cuz that feels more natural to me.

anyways c king, thanks for the well thought out response.

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