13 Detailed Steps (Mystery):
1) Smile when you walk into a room. See the group with the target and follow the tree-second rule. Do not hesitate-approach instantly.
2) Recite a memorized opener, if not two or three in a row.
3) The opener should open the group, not just the target. When talking, ignore the target for the most part. If there are men in the group, focus your attention on the men.
4) Neg the target with one of the slew of negs we’ve come up with. Tell her, “It’s so cute. Your nose wiggles when you laugh”
5) Convey personality to the entire group. Do this by using stories, magic, anecdotes, and humor. Pay particular attention to the men and less attractive women. During this time, the target will notice that you are the center of attention. You may perform various memorized piece like the photo routine, but only for the obstacles.
o The photo routine involves carrying an envelope of photos in a jacket pocket, as if they’ve just been developed. Each photo, however, is pre-selected to convey a different aspect of the PUA’s personality, such as images of the PUA with beautiful women, with children, with pets, with celebrities, goofing off with friends, and doing something active like roller-blading or skydiving. The PUA should also have a short, witty story to accompany each photo.
6) Neg the target again if appropriate. If she wants to look at the pictures, for example, say, “Oh my god, she’s so grabby. How you roll with her.”
7) Ask the group, “So, how does everyone know each other?” If the target is with one of the guys, find out how long they’ve been together. If it’s a serious relationship, eject politely by saying, “Pleasure meeting you.”
If she is not spoken for, say to the group, “I’ve sort of been alienating your friend. Is it all right if I speak to her for a couple minutes?” They always say “Uh, sure. If it’s okay with her.” If you’ve executed the preceding steps correctly, she will agree.9) Isolate her from the group by telling her you want to show her something cool. Take her to sit with you nearby. As you take her through the crowd, do a kino test by holding her hand. If she squeezes back, it’s on. Start looking for other IOI’s.
10) Sit with her and perform a rune reading, an ESP test, or any other demonstration that will fascinate and intrigue her.
11) Tell her, “Beauty is common but what’s rare is a great energy and outlook on life. Tell me, what do you have inside that would make want to know you as more than mere face in the crowd? If she begins to list qualities, this is a positive IOI.
12) Stop talking. Does she reinitiate the chat with a question that begins with the word “ So?” If she does, you’ve now seen three IOI and can…
13) Kiss close. Say, out of the blue, “Would you like to kiss me?” If the setting or circumstances aren’t conductive to physical intimacy, then give yourself time constraint by saying, “I have to go, but we should continue this.” Then get her number and leave.