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| Author: | J_J_Okocha [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 5:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Gaming a Friend's Sister |
How do you guys feel about running game on a friend's sister, especially younger sisters? The reason I ask this is because I just feel weird trying to holla at a friend's sister. Like this past saturday I walked into a party and I see this chick who is eyeing me who is about and HB7.5 to 8 real cute with nice lips. i pass by her to get me a drink and we have a small little chat and i keep it moving. i can still see her looking at me every once and a while. Later on i sit down and she comes over and sits next to me without a word. Obviously she wants my attention. Anyways I open her up and we chat for a while. Then one of my friends, well not really a good friend more of a friend of a friend is talking to someone and points to this girl im talking to and is like thats my sister. Anyways I found out she is visiting for the weekend. For some reason once i found out it was his sister my mood just changed and i didnt really want to game anymore. I probably could have gotten at least a k-close. By the way I dont have any sisters, I have two brothers. I have been like this for a while, I just feel like it is wrong. |
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| Author: | Swoop [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 6:06 am ] |
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Hmmm, I think it depends how old she is, and how old you are. If you are both over OR under 18, it should be all good unless there's like a predatory age difference (I wont go for girls more than three years younger.) Anyways, I can understand the apprehension. I would just say fuckit. if shes into you, and you her, thats out of your hands! Go for it. However if you were my friend and you went after my little sister, I'd probably deck you in the face... No jk, but I would say backoff if I didn't like you. |
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| Author: | NonStopReaper [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 5:24 pm ] |
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i know how you feel. My best friensd has a hot sister but i never made a move on her cause i consider her like family to but o couple of time i hooked up with girls and to find out she was a sister of one of my friends. the story when like this. I was seeing this girl around when i was 18 or so and i come over to her house one time to sleep over. the next morning i walk down stairs to get a drink and i see my friend sitting there on the couch and we both stared at each other. and i was like NonStop:.... dude what are you doing here.... Friend: um i live here...wait what are you doing in my sister room? NonStop: dude dont tell me... that girl is your sister.... oh man Friend:..... NonStop: how come you never told me you had a sister! Friend: so your the dude she always talking about NonStop: now thats just disturbing Friend: ......Dude you hungry? NonStop:.....sure lets to get some grub..... He is still my friend and was cool about it since it was his older sister i still feel bad that it happend. lol, like swoop i dont have any sisters. Now if it was a sister of some dude i didnt like oh man i would go for it. |
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| Author: | J_J_Okocha [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:53 pm ] |
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Quote: Hmmm, I think it depends how old she is, and how old you are. If you are both over OR under 18, it should be all good unless there's like a predatory age difference (I wont go for girls more than three years younger.)
its definitely not an age thing because i am 21 and she is 19. i dont know it has just been kinda one of my rules.
Anyways, I can understand the apprehension. I would just say fuckit. if shes into you, and you her, thats out of your hands! Go for it. However if you were my friend and you went after my little sister, I'd probably deck you in the face... No jk, but I would say backoff if I didn't like you. |
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| Author: | Marlow [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 3:31 am ] |
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I would strongly recommend not gaming her. I had a similiar situation, where my best friends sister showed interest in me, and her parents were even condoning us to 'getting together.' It ended in a whole lot of drama, and it nearly destroyed our friendship. It did, in a lot of ways. We're not nearly as close as we used to be. But anyway, ask yourself these questions: 1, theres a reason this is #1) Are you willing to lose your friendship over this? 2)Are you a good fighter? 2) Does he think you are a stand up guy who will not hurt his sister? 3)Is he level headed enough to accept that you like his sister? 4)Are you prepared to confront your friend on this issue? Trust me, don't let him confront you. Then it's too late. Our friendship ended over factors that were beyond my control. My best friend was very protective of his very hot sister, and knew that all his buddies joked about getting with her. The only way to get out of this situation was to break off our friendship (and my connection to his sister) for about a year. It's not worth it, unless you dont like your friend that much. |
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| Author: | Swoop [ Thu Nov 20, 2008 9:27 am ] |
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From what I understand, its a friend of a friend, right? Fuck it, if you like her why not? Thats def different from best friends. Just be cool with the bro and put yourself in his shoes while youre both around him, ie no mack seshes or ass slapping. Act like you would around a girlfriends brother. Keep the respect. But like JB^ said, there may be future drama, so figure out if shes worth it. |
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| Author: | curve [ Thu Nov 20, 2008 3:22 pm ] |
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dont. i was the friend with the sister, told him not to speak to me and if i hear anything more ill kick the shit out of him... its like going for a mates exgirlfriend. |
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| Author: | megamangaea [ Fri Nov 21, 2008 8:29 pm ] |
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All you guys who are against picking up your friends sister, you are missing the point of being a PUA. Almost all girls have brothers, it's almost certain you'll run into a girl with one at least once in your life. Overcoming them shouldn't be any different than overcoming your friends. Some are overprotective some are not. If you get that from a friend it's because they see something in you that he thinks may not a good thing to his sister. In such cases your friend is a cockblock, and obviously you haven't completely earned their trust and need to do so. Clearly as when approaching a group of people you need to open to their leader or the male in the group before you attract your target. |
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| Author: | BlackVenom [ Fri Nov 21, 2008 9:08 pm ] |
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Quote: All you guys who are against picking up your friends sister, you are missing the point of being a PUA. Almost all girls have brothers, it's almost certain you'll run into a girl with one at least once in your life. Overcoming them shouldn't be any different than overcoming your friends. Some are overprotective some are not. If you get that from a friend it's because they see something in you that he thinks may not a good thing to his sister.
You don't break a man law, for the sake of pickup. If your friend is against you and his sister getting together, you have to respect his opinion. Even so, say you do hook up with her, and she becomes attached, you're going to fuck up the dynamic of your friendship with the whole family. So, unless she is worth all the bullshit you would have to deal with if it goes wrong, DON'T DO IT. And if you disagree with me, obviously you haven't been in the situation before, and I guess you'll have to learn the hard way.
In such cases your friend is a cockblock, and obviously you haven't completely earned their trust and need to do so. Clearly as when approaching a group of people you need to open to their leader or the male in the group before you attract your target. |
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