The first thing everyone should realise is...
REJECTION is fine... it's normal... and it's NO PROBLEM!
A girl that I didn't know, that has no value to me yet, has said NO to me. Why should I take it personally?
I think the whole game of indirect is built around NOT ACCEPTING REJECTION...
But I ask you...
Who are you to impose to a girl how to react?
Maybe she's on her period. Maybe she indeed has a boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat. Maybe indeed she doesn't feel attracted to you.
Or maybe she didn't like the way you approached (i.e. your behavior... not you as a human being, BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T KNOW YOU!)
IS THAT SO BAD TO ACCEPT?
The more you accept it, the more freedom it gives you to talk to the women you truly like and find the one that has interest in you as well...
Yes we develop our personality and communication skills, but we never take rejection personal.
Think about this for a while... and you will find out DIRECT is a better way to go since you state your intention right away, or soon after you've opened her...
That way she has a choice ... it doesn't mean we have to hear YES out of her mouth... But if she allows you to lead her... by talking, by answering your hand shake when you tell her your name... damn it, that's enough! That's a huge YES!
it's subtle but it's a YES!Seduction is very easy lads, it's not mathematics, it's not A123 C123 S123... that's a method made by and for geeks!
Do you want to be a natural confident man? Then try being upfront about what you want... in a relaxed and DONT-BE-A-JERK way of course.
What do you think about this philosophy guys?
Let's debate...