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| Author: | xiaowlin [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 3:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need some approaching help or tips guys |
Hi everyone, this is my first post ever, and it might be a long one. So I read Mystery's book on "How to get any beautiful women into bed" and I still haven't fully understand and perfected the A1 to A3 stage, let alone the rest. In my opinion, even though Mystery seem to give thorough content in each stage, he lacks examples. For instance, one of his extremely common openers is "Hey guys, have you seen the fight outside?" or "Should you floss before or after you brush?" Don't any of you guys find these openers a bit weird or cheezy at least? I field tested these and got bad reponses out of them. The thing is what do you say after that? How do you neg the girls after these openers and show DHV? Mystery lacks conversation examples of actually what to say and explaining why this a seamless or at least good transition from A1 to A3. He talks a lot about the techniques, but doesn't give good enough examples. I find his book awesome and firmly believe that it works, but I'm just lost. On most nights, I don't get much success, I usually talk with just what's on my mind and more often than not, I can't think of what to say next and the conversation dies down and that really kills it. I also tend to ask "where you're from and what do you do" type of questions, which I know is boring, but I can't help it sometimes, everyone does it. What I'm asking is can anyone post me a conversation example of A1 to A3 or from opening to number close. Thanks guys, any help is appreciated. |
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| Author: | mup1537 [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 4:07 am ] |
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Hey Im new here too and welcome. I think alot of prefab openers and pick up lines are cheesy and blow it for you. What you need is to not be confident in a prefab opener and be confident in yourself. Walk confident, smile confident and just talk to her like a man in control. Start to think and talk creative with your feinds as well. An a attractive man is a man with a good story. An little story can be blown up too. I ask girls if they have ever ridden the L train after midnight. They say no and i entice them with a story because the L after midnight gives you a new story every time. Politically incorrect humor is very good as well. Make fun of your surroundings a little but tastefully and playfully not insultingly. BUT REALIZE YOUR THE SHIT and start smiling about it. That girl wants you to talk to you as much as you want to talk to her. Smile and ask her how her day is going ma man. Best of luck bro! |
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| Author: | Hopeless Romantic [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 5:07 am ] |
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It sounds like you're not grounding the question well enough. I've used the flossing opener a few times. The problem with that one though is that it was on the VH1 show, so it could be commonly known now so that could be part of your problem Anyway, back to grounding. Grounding is the reason of why you're asking the question. So after I use any opinion opener I always say "the reason why I'm asking is because..." For flossing I usually use "the reason why I'm asking is because my brother and I were having an argument and we made a bet from it. So now we're going around asking people to see who wins." Maybe you should look at your approach as well. Do you have good body language? Good voice tonality? How did you approach? Did you make it seem like you were just thinking abotu it, or does it seem more like you had preplanned that you were going to ask this question. |
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