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| Author: | liftingaddict [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 12:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | What you think of my opner? |
Lemme know what you think Openers: Hey I got to go in a few minutes, but what’s your first impression of my red hair? Hey you want to try an experiment for some laughs? Pick a number from 1-4, the first number that pops into your head | snap | You got that? Good! Hey so what do you have going for you besides looks? Beauty is common. You’re very beautiful but what’s really rare is a great personality, outlook, and energy! I say you picked 3! Okay lets do it again, Pick a number from 1-10, first number that pops into your head | snap | Hey so if you could go to any college where would it be? No way have I actually known some girls from that college! Back to the game I say you picked 7! I gotta go but give me your number and I’ll see you around some time. Talk to you later! |
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| Author: | woosh [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 2:45 am ] |
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i don't quite understand it myself |
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| Author: | GeneralGetts [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 1:18 pm ] |
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hey, lifting addict... A decent base but i feel you need a fair bit of work to really grab the girls attention. Just my opinion but here goes: 1: dont ask an opinion of yourself - it lowers your value and comes accross as needing validation... if you saying... how awesome is my hair, you just look an idiot. imaging if a girl came up to you and said that. 2:Asking what she has apart from her beauty isnt an opener... you can only get her to qualify herself once you have acheived the hook (i.e 3 IOIs) otherwise she will not feel any need to validate herself and you've just blown the set. congrats. 3:When you ask her a question, i.e what college, if any - dont relate it to yourself.. it just shows your only interested in yourself, there is no like between you and her and i dont think the fact that you know someone where she wants to go is very interesting. so..... 1: Ask a question about the current time i.e music / type of people in club or a canned opener i.e jealous gf or which pick up lines are best... make her interested in you... find soemthing that she is interested in and talk about that... 2: To get her attracted to you try some DHVs (display higher value)... say why you have to go... like "my friends havin a huge party and he's about to get in some champagne or i've got to catch up with some friends i met travvelling" (opens a new conversation thread) if you ahvent been travveling - read about it - its not lying its flirting. 3: If you ask a question about ehr... i.e what college... relate it back to her. Say, "wow.. thats a great school" and either neg - "you must be pretty nerdy... you look like more of a party girl than a bookworm" or comfort "you must be pretty smart - i always find it difficult to meet intesting intelligent people in a club. normally they're just all party girls who are all alike" if its a sports college say she doesnt look sporty (neg) or that she must be really copmpetitive or muscly - then get her to tense her biceps and feel them (kino escalation) if its an arty college say "didnt feel like doing a proper subject then? my refigerator is looking a bit bare at the moment... you wanna do me a picture i can put on it?" (neg) or... so you really creative? i like that... so many girls are so narrow minded these days.. i guess your pretty adventurous too? (cold reading + everyone wants to be seen as adventurous) Just my two cents lifting addict but i hope this helps... if i can help you or anyone else reading this with anything then please feel free to private message me Cheers GG |
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| Author: | V1V [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 1:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What you think of my opner? |
Quote: Hey so what do you have going for you besides looks?
dont use this as an opener. definately not. the red hair one - ok. the esp one - dont ask her if she wants to do it. say - lets do it for some laughs.Beauty is common. You’re very beautiful but what’s really rare is a great personality, outlook, and energy! I say you picked 3! V1V 
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| Author: | snoppy [ Sat Oct 04, 2008 8:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'd modified your opener. |
Never talk about looks. Ur jumping to comfort stage. Where the couple shares in friendly dialogue. By jumping into the comfort stage without building attraction will cause the HB to think that you are a common nice guys that they wont even bother. Worst, they will even think that you are hitting on them. Because you care too much on her. This will seriously make your values drop. Your conversation shows low confident. Why not try this. My opinion. And i modified yours. You walk to her. Hey nice watch or ear ring. (Any accesories) My mum has it too! You and her are so alike ! Ignore her totally if she replies you. Talk to her friends. Face her friend and start your opener to her friend. Make sure HB can hears it too ,so she can have a chance to join in. Opener You girls should smile more ! It looks better in a pub/club.I got to go in a minute. Before i go i'll make you girls smile alright ? Ignore their reply and start. YOU: This is an experiment for some laughs? Pick a number from 1-4, the first number that pops into your head | snap | You got that? Good! Hey so what do you have going for you besides outrages hairdo or make up ? HB's FRIEND: WHAT !? YOU: It looks good on you anyway. (Make sure your sincere.) You’re very loud but what’s really rare is a great personality, outlook, and energy! I say you picked 3! Okay lets do it again, Pick a number from 1-10, first number that pops into your head | snap | Hey so if you could go to any college where would it be? No way have I actually known some girls from that college! Back to the game I say you picked 7! <<< CONTINUE YOUR OPENER. DON'T # CLOSE SO FAST BRO >>>> YOU : (Give HB some attention if she is slient and not participating. Ask her friend.) Is she always so quiet ? ( If the HB tries to get in the conversation, tell her.) Hey wait for your turn ! Is she always like that ?! JEZZ ! Give the sets false frame from now. Showing them that you are about to go soon. Follow by a story. Finish off with. : I seriously need to go off now. I really enjoy talking to you guys that i nearly forgot about the time . Give a awkard look to HB. Ahh i totally forgot about you ( HB ). I'm really sorry for that. Just pass me your #. I'm really sorry. By doing this, it disarmed the group and breaks down the anti-slut shields of the HB. You demo high values at the same timing too ! That's all bro. Hope u'll make it. snoppy |
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