I m trying to open up a conversation on SPAM with a girl (working in the same office with me and I got her number somehow randomly in an event before) from a general greeting... below is our conversation while I m not sure how to move to more topics or open a topic later on (say, tomorrow?)
Me: Happy new year and great wishes!
Her: Happy new year
Me: Hope that we don't need to work later this year too
<we are used to work until late night, indeed we are in different team working on totally different thing>Her: Yes hope we don't need to OT any more!
Me: Let's tell the boss "hope we don't need to OT" this Wednesday when he delivering new year gifts.
<yes, the boss will deliver new year gift...>Her: I have not seen him OT before.
Me: Then I ll give him a gift and tell him don't let us OT anymore.
<shit, wht s a conversation killer I am...>And then, two blue ticks I got on the last conversation...
Bros, please give me some advices!!