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| Author: | Qquat [ Sun Nov 20, 2016 11:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to day game solo |
I need to game game solo as I struggle to find a wingman but whenever I do I just wander around without actually approaching, and even if I do it is just indirect and finishes almost instantly. Any help would be greatly appreciated! |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 12:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
What does "finish almost instantly" mean? How do you approach a girl when it's one of the instances that you do? She's not going to introduce you to her family because you said hello to her. |
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| Author: | Qquat [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 10:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
Quote: What does "finish almost instantly" mean? How do you approach a girl when it's one of the instances that you do? She's not going to introduce you to her family because you said hello to her.
All I mean is it doesn't turn into a full interaction, I might ask for a good place to eat and I get the answer, but no connection made or closes
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Nov 21, 2016 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
Quote: Quote: What does "finish almost instantly" mean? How do you approach a girl when it's one of the instances that you do? She's not going to introduce you to her family because you said hello to her.
All I mean is it doesn't turn into a full interaction, I might ask for a good place to eat and I get the answer, but no connection made or closes |
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| Author: | Qquat [ Tue Nov 22, 2016 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
Quote: Let's say someone came and asked you the same question. Would you feel obligated to make a connection because you answered the question? The reason that the connection is made is your responsibility to make happen. Getting a girl to tell you some information that has nothing directly to do with her isn't going to create that connection. Getting her to reveal something about herself and you being interested will create that connection. Exactly, it is my responsibility, but I'm not too sure how to escalate an indirect (or even direct for that matter) sentence into her revealing something about herself, while still appearing 'normal' to some degree |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Fri Nov 25, 2016 9:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
If you do approach women for some vague reason for let's say direction or time, one way to turn it into a conversation is to be more direct. So let's say you approach her by asking her for directions You: Excuse me, do you know where the bus station is? Her: Yea, you gotta go there and then turn left You: Ok awesome, you know I really don't care about the bus station, I just saw you and wanted to say something...PAUSE Her: Smiles You: So what's up with you, where are you headed? Her: I'm going to work You: Really, what do you do? Her: I'm an accountant You: O that sounds boring...how did you get into it? Etc. One thing I want to give you a heads up, as you start doing this, your mind might go "Well you're bothering her, you're taking up her time..." I want you to know that if that comes up, say to yourself, "It's OK. I am learning this and it is OK for me to bother women and take up their time. Their life isn't super interesting anyway, so I'll make their day by talking to them" It's really important that you are actively answering the unheard questions of your mind. Hope this helps you get going, try it and get back to us. |
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| Author: | Autoregressive [ Tue Nov 29, 2016 6:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
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Exactly, it is my responsibility, but I'm not too sure how to escalate an indirect (or even direct for that matter) sentence into her revealing something about herself, while still appearing 'normal' to some degree
You have to be genuinely interested in getting to know her to appear normal. Try and meet women in places where you think they might have something in common with you. That'll make conversation easier.
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 29, 2016 6:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
Sounds like you came here to whine.. Its not going to get any easier than it is now. Its not suppose to be easy or comfortable. You have to push through the feminine weakness and do it regardless of how you feel. What most guys don't know is that when you approach whether a woman is receptive to it or not, they respect the action you took. Mostly because they wouldn't of have the courage to do the same. Try this quote: Quote: “I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”
― Og Mandino |
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| Author: | Qquat [ Wed Dec 07, 2016 6:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
Yeah that's a good opener black phantom, I've managed to get more direct now, getting near 10 approaches. I guess it was almost a fear of showing my true intention that stopped me, links to the feminine thing you guys were talking about as well. Now I've done a few more though it's become easier to just let out my intention straight away; turned it from imagination into a memory you know. Thanks for the help |
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| Author: | GFRESH2DEF [ Mon Dec 12, 2016 1:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to day game solo |
Quote: I need to game game solo as I struggle to find a wingman but whenever I do I just wander around without actually approaching, and even if I do it is just indirect and finishes almost instantly. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
You will have to practice approaching women during the day, until your approach anxiety is diminished. Start very very small in the beginning to get yourself warmed up, and then your conversations with the women that you approach will progressively last longer and longer throughout the course of your daygame sessions. I have some tips to get you more in-state as you get warmed-up with each and every approach.* Begin by asking girls 1 - 3 for the time. They tell you the time, say "Thank you", then eject (about 5 to 10 seconds per set) * Smile and high five girls 4 - 6 and eject, your vibe is getting a little bit better because you're getting out of your head and into your body. (about 1 to 3 seconds per set) * Compliment girls 7 - 9, and eject (Example: "I like your dress") (about 10 to 15 seconds per set) * Compliment girls 10 - 12, plus a question (Example: "I like your dress. Where did you get it from?"). Listen to the answer, respond back to the girl..she may respond back again. Then eject. Now you're getting into deeper conversations in your sets. (about 2 to 5 minutes per set) * Now you should be warmed-up and more in-state, which means you're feeling alot bolder and close to 0 approach anxiety at this point. Stop girls 13 - 15, and tell them that you saw them walking and you thought that they were cute, adorable, or looked nice, etc. And that you would've kicked yourself later for not approaching them. Use stacking, or multi-conversational threads to segway into different topics during your dialogue between you and the girls. If she starts investing - asking you questions like "So where are you from?" or "What are you doing today?" this means that the set has hooked. Shortly after answering her questions..you can now go for the insta date. If she rejects that request - go for the number close. If she rejects that request also - go for the facebook close. (about 5 minutes + per set) This is the standard outline that i use every time i do daygame. It's pretty efficient and simple. It's hard to go wrong with this simple daygame outline. This doesn't mean that you won't get rejected by several girls during this process..but it doesn't matter. Don't be stupid! Rejections are to be expected. Stick to the process regardless. It's designed to get you out of your head and into a more positive social and talkative vibe little bit by little bit. -G |
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