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Author:  RichardTheFrog [ Mon Sep 05, 2016 11:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Fear of sexual rejection
I've reached the point where small talk is a futile waste of time.

I have yet to flat out ask a girl if she wants to have sex, wants to come back to my place, want to give me a blowjob, wants me to eat her pussy, etc.

I have never even ASKED anyone.

Maybe it's as simple as asking. Maybe it's not. Maybe they would need to get away from their friends. Maybe if I kept it somewhat quiet.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Sep 06, 2016 1:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
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I've reached the point where small talk is a futile waste of time.

I have yet to flat out ask a girl if she wants to have sex, wants to come back to my place, want to give me a blowjob, wants me to eat her pussy, etc.

I have never even ASKED anyone.

Maybe it's as simple as asking. Maybe it's not. Maybe they would need to get away from their friends. Maybe if I kept it somewhat quiet.
No...never verbally ask a woman if she wants anything that's intimate. You just escalate and do these things while you are in the moment.
Author:  RichardTheFrog [ Tue Sep 06, 2016 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
"In the moment" isn't going to happen in a bar. There has to be another location. I suppose I could use plausible deniability. There is one good way I know to get girls back to your house but I can't mention what it is because it's illegal, but I've heard a lot of people ask if girls want to come back to their house and...... (fill in the blank)...

But I don't touch that stuff, so that wouldn't help me.

Without some form of verbal consent, it could be rape unless she's just ripping her clothes off.

Where are you exactly talking about this "moment" happening? On the dance floor? In the bathroom? Some three minute make-out at the bar? That would be kind of hot, actually.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Sep 06, 2016 1:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
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"In the moment" isn't going to happen in a bar. There has to be another location. I suppose I could use plausible deniability. There is one good way I know to get girls back to your house but I can't mention what it is because it's illegal, but I've heard a lot of people ask if girls want to come back to their house and...... (fill in the blank)...

But I don't touch that stuff, so that wouldn't help me.

Without some form of verbal consent, it could be rape unless she's just ripping her clothes off.
Or you can learn to lead. When you're at the bar, instead of telling a girl that you want to come back to your house and have sex, say "let's go."
Author:  BigTim [ Sun Sep 11, 2016 3:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
If this is going to get you out of comfort zone, then do it.

Although my advice is to switch "Do you want to x" with "I want to x".
Author:  RichardTheFrog [ Mon Sep 12, 2016 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
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If this is going to get you out of comfort zone, then do it.

Although my advice is to switch "Do you want to x" with "I want to x".
Good advice. And if she says "no," I could say, "I didn't say YOU." Lol.
Author:  R.C [ Mon Sep 12, 2016 7:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
Stop masturbating mentally and looking for contingencies.

First do, then solve the problems you may encounter.
Author:  Guzzin [ Mon Sep 12, 2016 11:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Fear of sexual rejection
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Stop masturbating mentally and looking for contingencies.

First do, then solve the problems you may encounter.
Exactly what I was thinking :lol:
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