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Author:  Ricardo999 [ Tue Jul 26, 2016 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
How should I respond if I get this comment during day game?
Author:  Stoliar [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 6:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Yes.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 7:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Don't do the cocky pua shit-test thing and say 'You're the 87th girl age approached in the last hour' it always fails.

I wouldn't be phased or react to it. I would just say 'Yeah, sometimes'
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 10:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
" What different does it make? "

Turn it into a conversation and not a " yes, so what. " in your face kind of thing. Its something to talk about. Thats something men are searching for when they approach and swear they don't know what to say next. That question right there is giving you something to talk about. Turn her suspicions into conversations and you'll have a lot more success.
Author:  Chief [ Wed Jul 27, 2016 2:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

Or something a little more nuanced that you can take in another direction like:

Only the ones I think I might like (follow up with qualifier)

Don't ever get stuck in a defensive position or frame.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jul 28, 2016 12:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Quote:
All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

You're joking right?

I would think that buy now its common knowledge that a conveyance of value has a lot less to do with the words one chooses to respond with(the what) and a lot more to do with the confidence, frame, tone, etc. one chooses to respond with(the how). He can say the greatest "value conveying" canned response in the world, but if its done from a weak, insecure, non believing frame he will get a negative response. And in the same light he can use ANY of the openers listed above delivered from a strong, confident, value conveying frame and get a positive response.

Thats seduction 101.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Thu Jul 28, 2016 12:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Quote:
Quote:
All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

You're joking right?

I would think that buy now its common knowledge that a conveyance of value has a lot less to do with the words one chooses to respond with(the what) and a lot more to do with the confidence, frame, tone, etc. one chooses to respond with(the how). He can say the greatest "value conveying" canned response in the world, but if its done from a weak, insecure, non believing frame he will get a negative response. And in the same light he can use ANY of the openers listed above delivered from a strong, confident, value conveying frame and get a positive response.

Thats seduction 101.
Calm down Eddie, your ego is showing again. Just because he said he wasnt highly fond of your response doesnt mean you have to get bent out of shape. Ive noticed that pattern with you.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jul 28, 2016 12:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

You're joking right?

I would think that buy now its common knowledge that a conveyance of value has a lot less to do with the words one chooses to respond with(the what) and a lot more to do with the confidence, frame, tone, etc. one chooses to respond with(the how). He can say the greatest "value conveying" canned response in the world, but if its done from a weak, insecure, non believing frame he will get a negative response. And in the same light he can use ANY of the openers listed above delivered from a strong, confident, value conveying frame and get a positive response.

Thats seduction 101.
Calm down Eddie, your ego is showing again. Just because he said he wasnt highly fond of your response doesnt mean you have to get bent out of shape. Ive noticed that pattern with you.
It's all in how you read it bro.

Im pretty chill.

He didn't single me out, so theres no need to take offense or get bent out of shape. Thanks for reading though.
Author:  Chief [ Fri Jul 29, 2016 1:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
There's a difference between conveying value and giving value.

And giving value is so much better than trying to convey it.
Author:  Ricardo999 [ Fri Jul 29, 2016 6:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Ok guys thanks for your help
Author:  Ricardo999 [ Sat Aug 06, 2016 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "Do you normally chat up random strangers"
Quote:
All of the answers above fail to give value. I don't like that. They're fine, but not great.

How about something like:

Only the (cute/interesting/pretty) ones *wink*

Or something a little more nuanced that you can take in another direction like:

Only the ones I think I might like (follow up with qualifier)

Don't ever get stuck in a defensive position or frame.
Great answer
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