PUA Forum :: How should i approach random women

To keep this short, simply how could i approach any type of woman with attempts of getting her number or w.e with NO type of chance of rejection...

simply how could i approach any type of woman with attempts of getting her number or w.e with NO type of chance of rejection...

If this is in the wrong place

"I know this is a little weird and I usually don't do this, but I thought you were really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. My name is ____. Who are you?"

Not that complicated.

Rejection IS the foundation for becoming successful. The only sure method to not get rejected, is to not try.

Quote:

"I know this is a little weird and I usually don't do this, but I thought you were really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. My name is ____. Who are you?"

Not that complicated.

no.. do not say i know this is a little weird.

If you don't want to be directly rejected the you can try speaking to the girl without the intention of getting her number. Just try and have a chat.. she still might be a bitch and entirely ignore your ass though. not quite as likely though... if things are going well then you can ask for her number.

opening with.. Hey do i know you? or Hey were you at .... the other day?

Author:	Yours.Truly [ Fri Feb 05, 2016 7:42 am ]
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First off, let me start off by telling you im only 18. Im not saying i have trouble approaching any type of female, but im also not saying I tend to get caught up when i walk up to some. To keep this short, simply how could i approach any type of woman with attempts of getting her number or w.e with NO type of chance of rejection... If this is in the wrong place, someone could move this to a more suitable one. Also,if anyone is willing to give me as much help/advice as possible I'd be thankful.

Author:	JackZero [ Fri Feb 05, 2016 8:15 am ]
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Become this guy:

Author:	Melodical [ Fri Feb 05, 2016 10:48 am ]
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Quote: To keep this short, simply how could i approach any type of woman with attempts of getting her number or w.e with NO type of chance of rejection... By changing what you think "rejection" means and start looking at it as a combination of screening and time management.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Feb 05, 2016 2:43 pm ]
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Rejection IS the foundation for becoming successful. The only sure method to not get rejected, is to not try. And THAT my young friend is why most come seeking advice.

Author:	oceanx [ Fri Feb 05, 2016 3:45 pm ]
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Quote: simply how could i approach any type of woman with attempts of getting her number or w.e with NO type of chance of rejection... If this is in the wrong place Oh yes this is the wrong forum. Risking "rejection" is the NAME OF THIS GAME. Ball up or let others engage the lovely ladies, it is your choice.

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Author:	JSmooth [ Fri Feb 05, 2016 4:00 pm ]
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The guys are right. There are no magic beans to eat to make anyone rejection proof, there is just hard work with hours and hours of practicing your craft. Just like riding a bike we learn by doing. For a while we keep falling down, skinning our knees, some maybe crying. But we get back up on the bike and keep going until we don't need training wheels anymore.

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Mon Feb 08, 2016 10:37 pm ]
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"I know this is a little weird and I usually don't do this, but I thought you were really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. My name is ____. Who are you?" Not that complicated.

Author:	ColaGuy [ Wed Feb 10, 2016 7:14 am ]
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Quote: "I know this is a little weird and I usually don't do this, but I thought you were really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. My name is ____. Who are you?" Not that complicated. no.. do not say i know this is a little weird. If you don't want to be directly rejected the you can try speaking to the girl without the intention of getting her number. Just try and have a chat.. she still might be a bitch and entirely ignore your ass though. not quite as likely though... if things are going well then you can ask for her number. opening with.. Hey do i know you? or Hey were you at .... the other day?

Author:	KaliPyth0n [ Wed Feb 10, 2016 9:46 am ]
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Quote: Rejection IS the foundation for becoming successful. The only sure method to not get rejected, is to not try. Well said brother, when people are rejected they tend to curl up and not want to try it again any time soon, you primary concern should not be to hit numbers straight away, your vision should be set towards a conversation that leads to multiple topics, what if she tells you "Sorry i am taken.." and it goes silent??? what do you do ? well simply shrug it off because that wasn't your original intent, you just want to talk ps. its actually quite easy to make a girl Cheat on her man. Don't stay hooked with her.. Learn body language that suits your own image of HV, Basics of eye contact, And do not become a carbon copy

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Wed Feb 10, 2016 10:20 am ]
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Quote: Quote: "I know this is a little weird and I usually don't do this, but I thought you were really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. My name is ____. Who are you?" Not that complicated. no.. do not say i know this is a little weird. If you don't want to be directly rejected the you can try speaking to the girl without the intention of getting her number. Just try and have a chat.. she still might be a bitch and entirely ignore your ass though. not quite as likely though... if things are going well then you can ask for her number. opening with.. Hey do i know you? or Hey were you at .... the other day? Actually, yes. You should acknowledge how "weird" it is to show the girl you're not a social retard. It's simply addressing the elephant in the room. It shows social intelligence.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Feb 11, 2016 7:41 pm ]
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Rejection is apart of every single aspect of life. Don't be ridicules. No pain no gain. Its the difficult times that develop you into the person you are. There is something called The Shock & Awe Technique is said by the OP to be rejection proof, but its going to take lots of rejection to develop the skill to pull off it. You have to put the work in. NO way around it.

Author:	horologist [ Fri Feb 12, 2016 1:05 pm ]
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Your fear of rejection is a result of catastrophic thinking patterns. Getting rejected by a stranger is really not that bad. I'm rejected all the time, and it's never bad. People are overall very nice, and will continue to be nice if you are. So if you are hitting on a girl in some way or another, and she rejects you, it won't even feel like a rejection. It'll just feel like the conversation sucked anyway, so you won't even be interested anyway. The worst rejection I had was when I was talking to this super hot brunette girl, definitely out of my league on a 1-10 scale. The conversation was okay and friendly, but I was getting fed up with the struggling for conversation points. I established that this girl was sexually open, so I decided to roll the dice. I told her how she needed to come to my house, and described to her how I would put my hand on her throat, slam her against the door, and fuck her senseless. This has worked for me in the past, and I only do it when I'm about to be done with this chick. What was her response? "Yeah, I'd do that with you... If you had muscles and a tan." She was friendly in her tone, but very ice cold. She wasn't shit testing me, she was just superficial. Her words cut me like a knife. I felt horrible, worst rejection I've ever had. She attacked my looks. So what did I do? I left her alone. Until about three hours later I had a few drinks in me, and I went up to her to talk. I told her I was pissed about what she said. She said "Sorry" in her ice queen tone. I then decided to thank her. I gave up all game and told her basically 'thank you, you're right, if I want more pussy I need to work on a few superficial things like muscles. You're right, an I'm glad you were honest with me. This is going to help me improve myself" Is this a perfect game story? No. It was a horrible rejection. But that horrible rejection helped me. It stung for a bit. But I got over it. The vast majority of rejections I've had, I could give a fuck less. If a girl rejects rudely (they almost never do), you should immediately hate her guts, and punish her by walking away. She's used to guys begging after a rejection. Be different. Stand out by walking away. You won't get laid by walking away from a rejection, but you'll fuck with her head a little bit. And finally. I'm going to tell you my best rejection story. I was in Germany. Matched with this girl on tinder. Talked to her for a few days waiting for Friday to meet up at a bar. The night before the meet, I fucked this super hot Polish girl. Well, I was running on empty. I had been working 12 hour shifts all week. I stayed up all night with the polish girl. Slept maybe three hours. So needless to say I was only interested in getting rest. So I go to this bar in Landstuhl, get a beer, wait for the girl with my lesbian friend. The girl shows up. She's hot, probably an 8. She knows she's hot, but she's into me. She's very outgoing. She wants to talk a lot. She's German, has a sexy German accent. We talk for about twenty minutes. She insists that I drink with her. But her attitude is just so gamey. By gamey I mean she won't just fuck. She needs to be gamed. I know I can game this girl into sex that night, I KNOW I can, all the signs are there. So then I start thinking. Okay its 9pm. It's going to take until like 1 or 2am to game this girl, because she wants to stay out and have fun. Then I'm gonna have to bring her back to my friend's house in Kaiserslautern. Then I'm gonna have to game a little bit to get her hot and ready to fuck. It's going to be 3am before I am even able to fuck this girl. I want sleep. What did I do? I told her I was tired and was gonna leave. She was disappointed by kindof bitchy about it. I told her thanks for coming. I step towards her and she goes to give me a hug. I HIGH FIVED her and walked away saying "Bye." I rejected the fuck out of that girl. Did she deserve it? No, not really. But I wasn't interested that night. Just like how girls aren't interested in me some nights. It's just not a big deal.

Author:	XXTRA FLYY [ Fri Mar 18, 2016 10:11 pm ]
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My opinion and what works for me when approaching women, is first all of there is a shortage of good men that are single and free. Therefore you are a catch, and you have to have that mindset, that a woman should want to be with you as much as you want to be with her. You have just as much to offer to her as she has to offer to you. Also never go out with the mindset that you have to get a number to be successful. Success comes in the approach. Never take it personal if a woman is not interested. You never know what she may have going on in her life, she could be going through a divorce, she could have just caught her man cheating, etc. So when you step to a woman just make conversation and take it where the conversation goes. If you get the number cool, if not you made the approach and who knows when you may see her again. And if you step to her in a respectful way and you are suave and smooth with it, she will remember you. Never be to pushy or anxious just step to her smooth and suave and just take it where the conversation goes.

Author:	Meridian100 [ Sat Mar 19, 2016 4:07 am ]
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I agree with the others about clarifying your definition of 'rejection' but I get the idea behind your question. I travel quite a bit and the #1 opener that works 100% of the time (and it would take a serious b*tch to shut this down cold) is simply to guess where she is from. It's as simple as approaching and saying "Let me guess, France right?", or if this doesn't fit your situation then it could also apply to guessing her ethnicity, "Let me guess, your Italian right?". Take your best guess and it doesn't matter if your right or wrong, usually she will tell you but if not then guess 2 more times before you get her to tell you. Then tell her to guess where you're from/ethnicity and go from there. This works best in a party, bar, or even college environment where it's already a social scene. In terms of literally approaching a completely random girl in the middle of a day on the street or park or something, then you can break the ice first by saying something like, "Hey I saw you from over there and I thought you are so beautiful I just had to come and see if there's more to you than just your looks." And from here transition to guess her home country, home city, ethnicity, what she's reading, or whatever applies best in your situation. It's always funner to guess things like this about her instead of just the same old "Hey where are you from?". BORING! Hope this helps you guys out, these lines have personally worked well for me dozens of times throughout my travels on women from all backgrounds.

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