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Author:  ishida [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 11:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys.
So I'm in university right now and there's this girl who is quite attractive. She is very flirtatious (to my eyes anyway) when we talk I feel like my game is good, but then I see her opening to the guys around me.

I've tried to talk to her best friend in front of her to make her feel like she isn't the centre or attention and negging her, but it just ends up as her friend becoming super clingy :| (*her friend is not attractive)

During the holidays she kept messaging me on social media, I don't know if she just finds entertainment or something. I don't want to be entertainment loooool.

This isn't really a post on how I can get the girl, but rather I feel as if she sees me as an equal to guys around, which I don't like.

How can I raise my SMV, to make her realise that I'm not like the other guys.

(I think this is mainly a competitive thing vs the guys rather than a desire to hook up with the girl.)

Thank you
Author:  oceanx [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 9:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys
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there's this girl
Therein lies the issue.

The focus on one girl.

No worries boss, just focus on being the attractive man of substance that you were born to be and the girls will find you appealing en masse; you will never again care about "there's this one girl" (until you want to settle down with one).
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 5:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys
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(I think this is mainly a competitive thing vs the guys rather than a desire to hook up with the girl.)
Yeah, you don't want to put your dick in her, you just want to worship her. Sounds ligit.
Author:  JackZero [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys
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How can I raise my SMV, to make her realise that I'm not like the other guys.
Why are you concerned with doing this after meeting a girl? It's like deciding to learn how to drive after starting the car. If you want to stand out from other guys, do it without needing the motivation of one specific girl.

With this girl, you have one and only one thing that you should be doing. Make your move.
Author:  ishida [ Wed Jan 20, 2016 12:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys
Hahaha, a small part of me knew that it was a oneitis kind of situation. Obviously I won't change overnight, but give it until next week and this will be a thing of the past.

I guess hearing it from other people helps me to realise the bigger picture clearer. Not overly fussed, since there's plenty other girls in uni to be fair, the feeling of competition just gets me going hahaha, I can never bare to lose :lol:

Thanks guys for the comments, they actually helped me quite a lot.

- Ishida
Author:  Black Phantom [ Wed Jan 20, 2016 10:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys
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Quote:
(I think this is mainly a competitive thing vs the guys rather than a desire to hook up with the girl.)
Yeah, you don't want to put your dick in her, you just want to worship her. Sounds ligit.
Haha
Author:  Darkie [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl gives me attention, but does the same to other guys
Quote:
So I'm in university right now and there's this girl who is quite attractive. She is very flirtatious (to my eyes anyway) when we talk I feel like my game is good, but then I see her opening to the guys around me.

I've tried to talk to her best friend in front of her to make her feel like she isn't the centre or attention and negging her, but it just ends up as her friend becoming super clingy :| (*her friend is not attractive)

During the holidays she kept messaging me on social media, I don't know if she just finds entertainment or something. I don't want to be entertainment loooool.

This isn't really a post on how I can get the girl, but rather I feel as if she sees me as an equal to guys around, which I don't like.

How can I raise my SMV, to make her realise that I'm not like the other guys.

(I think this is mainly a competitive thing vs the guys rather than a desire to hook up with the girl.)

Thank you
Your not supposed to game her ugly friend. Thats going to lower your status
You game the hot friend or the next cute girl. This raises dhv and creates jeolousy

You shouldnt worry about her talking to other guys because you should be talking to other girls
But if a girl is all friendly and up into guys' faces then i would say she is DTF and waiting for an alpha to pull the trigger.

When she msg's you and if you feel like its for entertainment purpose, neg her on it in a playful way, and set the frame for what you want
For example:
Girl sends you a msg
You reply: im a lover not a writer,
Im not you pen pal, lets meet up.
Dont talk to me as if im in the friendzone.
Less talking, more actions.

All of the above examples pretty much state that you intentions arent to be talking or txting back & forth.

One step into setting yourself apart from the rest of those guys is by leading the interaction with this girl into the direction that you want it to go in
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