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Author:  Sgthaytham [ Sat Nov 28, 2015 11:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her?
Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her OR that she ven likes me.

I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
Author:  R.C [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 6:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her?
Is this what you need to catch the hint OP?
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Ask her out already. This girl likes you.
Author:  FromSwedenWithLove [ Sun Nov 29, 2015 7:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her?
(Sorry for my bad english grammar, as you can see I am from Sweden, 23 years of age, still not god at spelling english)

(Iam new here and I would like to write all my thougts so I can get feedback on them. As I would like to give feedback on your thoughts.)

(Im gonna write with some own words from some notes I have since way back from diffrent things I have looked on from the computer.) (I would like some feedback on my thoughts to)

On topic: Dude she likes you. With that mind-set you will never see her do anything sexually with you if you have that mindset.

You are THE BOSS! YOU ARE THE BAD-GUY! YOU ARE AN ALPHA MALE! Why, because you know that you can make her happy and take care of her. You know that but you still do not belive that fully. Its all about the inside, you can control whats happening inside you, not what is happening inside her or the outer world. You are comfortable in your beliefs and you have great boundaries.

This is some deep-inner shit you have to deal with, do not get needy and do everything for this girl. Act like a Alphamale/PUA.

As we all know DD said. Attraktion is not a choice. It took me ages to really understand what that is all about, but when it hitted me like a fist in the face, my pickup game become so much easier. And you have to say, in your own brain, "Attraktion is not a choice". a hundred timess everyday. To understand that, simply because it is about inner game. how you choose to look att the world.

"Character is destiny" - Sigmund Freud.
If you ask your self about this girl: "why me, why me!!, why cannot we be lovers? I could love you, I have to show this bla bla bla" then you will never get her, you are the catch. And if she in some strange way do not want you (If she is menatally ill) it was just her loss, you know you can do better, you know this man. Dont be a nice guy, they get laid, but last.

If you see your self as confident with this girl, you see that you having intercourse with her, how she really enjoy being seduced by you. If you vision this in your head, how that she wants you. Things will go much easier.

Do not be afraid of rejection. That is simply what have made me not get rejected so much.

Something I really could recommend you is Alpha Male Material, Natural Material. :!: I think you need this because you are so introvert? (Am I right?) (You Can say, this forum is anonymously)
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 30, 2015 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her?
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Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her OR that she ven likes me.

I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
You could always man up and just ask her out............
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Nov 30, 2015 3:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Struggling to figure out if I have a chance with her?
For whatever reason, some dudes just cannot pick up on the signals.

Or due to some physiological glitch, do not have the balls to take the obvious next step.

They suffer suffer from just friends syndrome. That is, the unlucky guy has female friends, but that's all he is to them.

This syndrome seems to be contagious, with subsequent women following suit. These are the guys who get the calls at 11PM or 2AM on some Friday night from a crying female friend who wants him to come over and comfort her after she gets dumped, or when her dog dies.

Now eventually, these dudes need to grow up, get a life, get a clue, and stop giving a damn what other people may or may not think, just go get what you want.
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