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| Author: | yanchi [ Wed Sep 30, 2015 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
Saturday night I got a girls number. She saved her name in my phone as "Sally is fking awesome!" To not show that I am desperate at all I gave it 3 days to text her. Was debating about text or wattsapp as I saw she used wattsapp. Anyway, gave her a text saying.... "So why is sally "fking awesome!" ? Yanchi - The bar." No reply. Seems like a common thing with messaging girls after they have had a few drinks, we built up rapport, and she wanted me to stay and dance with her. Yet nothing back, and her wattsapp had said she has been online since, so I know it's not a fake number. Should I direct my texts in a different way in order to get a response? |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Thu Oct 01, 2015 3:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
Message her right after you get the number. |
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| Author: | Th0r [ Thu Oct 01, 2015 2:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
Message her your name right when you get the number. Then, next afternoon: Text 1. "Hey what are you up to?" Text 2: "Let's hang out" This is straight from RSD Julien. I have gotten a response AND them wanting to hang out 3 of the last 4 times since I watched RSD Julien's videos on this, he has 2 of them that are excellent. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri Oct 02, 2015 2:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
Quote: Message her your name right when you get the number. Then, next afternoon:
Text 1. "Hey what are you up to?" Text 2: "Let's hang out" This is straight from RSD Julien. I have gotten a response AND them wanting to hang out 3 of the last 4 times since I watched RSD Julien's videos on this, he has 2 of them that are excellent. Lol.... |
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| Author: | Portugal.Thy.Man [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 10:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
I can't vouch for texting right after, never tried it. I guess I'll do it like, whenever I feel like I should. Most of the time it's the next day. Just... don't wait 3 days. For god's sake, don't do it! Women can smell a guy that takes a cue from mainstream movies from a mile 
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Oct 03, 2015 11:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
So one of the things you should consider doing is never trying to come across as cute, as creative, as "unique" etc. Every single fuckin guy wants to send a "cool" text, one that other guys wouldn't think of...which in irony makes them sound like every other guy. Instead of trying to come across as cute like "So why is Sally f** awesome..." Send her a text with "Hey, it's Sally from the bar. Still remember me?" Come across as NORMAL, because trust me, normal is today VERY rare. When you try to come across as cute, she gets the idea that you're trying too hard, that she is really important to you and that probably you don't have a lot of value. When you're normal and you don't try too hard, then she gets the idea of "Hm this guy is interesting, he's not trying to be something he's not like these other guys..." Make sense? So normal good, cute bad. Moving on. The second thing to consider is don't stay too long in texting. Don't try texting with her the entire day. That never works. Send her a text like I wrote above. Then when she responds, send another one with something like, "So when are you buying me that coffee?" If you're texting too much, the girl will go "This guy doesn't have anything else to do, he's probably a loser..." and will lose interest. I'm a busy guy, so I don't have time to text with a girl all day. I want to get to know her. I text her. She responds. I set up a date for us to meet. Bam. Done deal. |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Sun Oct 04, 2015 2:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting a girls number - when/how to text back |
Could have summed up the whole post of value with this: Quote: Come across as NORMAL, because trust me, normal is today VERY rare.
Quote: I can't vouch for texting right after, never tried it. Why are you posting?
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