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Author:  Tariq5 [ Wed Aug 26, 2015 11:19 pm ]
Post subject:  What am I doing wrong??
I'm new to this whole gaming. I've been going out for the past 2 months trying to pick up. I have no problem approaching. I go up and say something along the lines like "hi, I think you're cute/beautiful" but after that I really don't know what to say to build attraction. I fuck up and start to ask boring questions like "where you from" and "what do you do" and more boring questions. Are these the questions I should be asking?
I get the girls number when I ask but when I text them the next morning, they reply once or don't reply at all and it really pisses me off.
What am I doing wrong?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Aug 27, 2015 4:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong??
1st, good job having the balls to keep at it. The main reason you are lacking success is because they you fail to stand out from the crowd when most other guys are trying to do the same thing as you. If you want the edge you need to make her notice you, instead of you and your Bro's Standing there ogling them.

Are you approaching with the confidence of Donald Trump about to fire all the suits from a company he just acquired? Somehow, I doubt it.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Fri Aug 28, 2015 5:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong??
Quote:
"hi, I think you're cute/beautiful"
Hot girls get this a lot. So far you are nothing special.
Quote:
"where you from" and "what do you do" and more boring questions. Are these the questions I should be asking?
You already know they are not.
Quote:
What am I doing wrong?
Not standing out in any way compared to another guy. Why would a hot women choose you?
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Aug 29, 2015 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong??
Call. Don't text.

You're going to have to learn to converse and if you aren't getting it done in person, get it done over the phone.

Open ended questions. Ask "how" and "why" questions as opposed to "what" and "Where" questions. How and why forces the responder to be a bit more elaborate with their response, which gives you more room to work with when it comes to furthering the conversation.
Author:  jsnw8330@yahoo.com [ Mon Aug 31, 2015 3:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong??
You don't need to worry about whether or not a certain line or word will work when talking to women, you should focus more on how you're saying what you want to say.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Sep 02, 2015 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What am I doing wrong??
You can ask questions like "where you from?" or "what do you do?" but you need to say them in the right tone with the right body language.

You're already approaching with intent... Atleast verbally. But then you lose it. You worry about building attraction.

Stop thinking about that and just keep showing intention. Let the girl say no to you.

So, all you've gotta do is keep hammering away with your intent while asking those questions (because the answers are important.) and talking to the girl. It's really all done with your tone. Sometimes I don't even know what the fuck is coming out of my mouth... but it sounds sexy. And that's what matters.

When you keep talking to the girl, don't just ask those boring questions with the "I'm trying to get to know you" tone.... Ask them with the "I'm trying to fuck you" tone.

The answers to the questions really don't matter aside from logistical purposes. Let's be real, you really don't give a fuck what she does or where she's from. You just care about whether or not she's gotta work in the morning and how far away from home you're gonna have to convince her to go.

Think the way Howard Stern would talk to a porn star coming onto his show. Very smooth and sexy. That's your new way of talking to girls.
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