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| Author: | DrexelScott [ Sat Jun 06, 2015 6:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 3 Keys To A Powerful Approach |
Drexel Scott here, featured author and coach at GirlsChase.com and contributor to ReturnOfKings.com. This is my first major post on this forum so I hope you enjoy my first article, "3 Keys To A Powerful Approach." I put off cold approaching for nearly 8 years of playing the Game. I relied on Social Circle, Coworkers, and Approach Invitations because I was scared to walk up to a girl and just put myself out there. A few weeks ago I started doing cold-approach and kept careful track of what I was doing. By doing so, and getting feedback and testing new stuff, I was able to get good FAST. There is no reason to do thousands of approaches to get good slowly when you can get good FAST instead by just doing it right in the beginning. I define "good," for the record, as "getting most of the phone numbers you go for" and after that, a different phase of the Game begins. Anyway, here are the 3 Keys To A Powerful Approach: 1. Get Her Full Attention. There are lots of guys out there who will kind of hang out in a woman's periphery and try to get them to notice him. Total waste of time. Be in her face, right away, taking up 100% of her attention so that it is all pointed right at YOU. The way to do this is to position yourself directly in front of her, none of that over the shoulder silliness, or sit down at her table with her, or sit next to her at the beach, so that she is now aware only of YOU and begins to wonder about you. 2. Humor Your opener should make her laugh. It lowers defenses, builds trust and rapport, and makes her open to further influence. All around win. The way to use humor is to set up a "joke," pause to build tension, and then deliver the "punchline" or the part you think is funny. If she doesn't laugh, she isn't interested and she is probably boring so leave. If she laughs, you have your in and can continue the conversation. 3. Command Compliance. COMMAND compliance. This means that, from the very first moment, she should be doing what you tell her or doing what you are implying she should do. For example, "Hi, I'm Drexel" as you reach out your hand is a compliance test. If she takes the hand, and responds, she is being compliant. Or if you stop her with a line like "You, stop, name, now" she should stop and tell you her name (you also want to extend your hand for that one). There can be no doubt or fear in your voice, presentation or vibe. You must OWN what you are doing. See Simple Pickup and Honest Signalz on YouTube for great examples of Powerful Approaches. Remember, these should be FUN FOR YOU. YOU are the one whose amusement ultimately matters more, because your having fun will spill over onto her and then she will also be having fun. Now go approach some hotties, cheers and have a great weekend! DS |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Jun 06, 2015 7:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 3 Keys To A Powerful Approach |
Overall, I like this. I'd like to point out that humor is very subjective and if she doesn't find your opener funny it doesn't mean that she's boring. What it does mean is that she doesn't find you attractive...yet. So if you walk away, you may be blowing your chances very early. In my opinion, you stick it through and start to have a normal conversation and during that conversation she will give you something that will allow a bond which will lead to attraction. If you successfully found something to bond over, this is the best time to apply humor and watch how she reacts because you can use it as a test for attraction. If she laughs it's a sign of attraction/submission to you. Other than that, I think your outline is pretty much on point. Hope to see more stuff from you posted on the forum. |
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