When you're just walking around, carry a smirk - a one sided smile. Don't walk around with a big grin on your face, because you'll look like a chump. A smirk makes you seem laid-back, yet slightly mischievous. It projects confidence and danger at the same time. If you ever face a woman, you'll notice she'll zone in on you if you've got a confident smirk.
When you want to actually smile at someone, do something called the "slow smile." Most people flash a smile when they're looking at random strangers. Slow your smile just a notch, so that it takes longer to take over your face. Your smile will seem more credible and sincere. This works on a subconscious level. Go try it in a mirror, and you should see the difference for yourself.
Chief is right: your smile will also seem more credible if it extends to your eyes. There are two muscle groups that create a smile. The first are the ones around your mouth/lower cheeks, and the second are your upper cheek muscles (just underneath your eyes). When you smile, be sure to use both groups. This causes your eyes to look like they're smiling, too.
The same goes with your body language. Whatever you do, don't fidget when you're talking to a girl. Don't ever shift your eyes, blink too much, or cover your face with your hands. These are "liar" cues, and everyone can read them. Even if you're telling the truth, a girl will think you're feeding her a story if you do this stuff. If you ever watch politicians or public speakers, you'll notice they don't fidget AT ALL. Even when their faces are dripping with sweat, they'll just stand there and keep talking.
Remember this stuff when you ARE lying, too. I'm pretty good at lying (my own family has a very hard time knowing when I'm lying or not), because I don't ever do any of the liar cues.
Hope this helps.
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