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| Author: | Tan5456K [ Tue May 12, 2015 3:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Should I approach on my way to work |
I am new to the game (not even a week in it). I often see chances when I'm on my way to work. But the thing is, I can't approach as I think that if something went wrong, I will have to pass by on the same path again and seeing a target who rejected me can become quite awkward. Is my thinking wrong? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue May 12, 2015 3:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
Quote: Is my thinking wrong?
Yes. No risk, no reward.Stop making excuses. |
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| Author: | Playboi_ [ Tue May 12, 2015 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
Yes. Not even going to read your entry. You think she is someone you wouldn't mind knowing? Then get at it. |
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| Author: | Tan5456K [ Wed May 13, 2015 2:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed May 13, 2015 4:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
I've found that the more courage it took me to approach the more successful the approach comes out to be. I'd get rejected the most in completely risk free situations. Away from home i.e on vacation, random girl, that i'll never see again. When I'm on the subway and I'm sitting next to a beauty, the trains quiet and everyone is listening..I'd get the least resistance. Its almost as if women intuitively know how much risk you're taking before you take it. They want the dragon slayed for them. It seems to have that affect. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 13, 2015 5:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
Open anyone you are in proximity with, that is the best cure for approach anxiety. On the way to work, standing in line at the bank, sitting next to someone at a bar. |
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| Author: | ceboii1 [ Thu May 14, 2015 10:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
As the saying goes "Approach early, and approach often". I'll tell you a story: When I was first starting out, I said "My pickup line is ____" followed by "Did it work?". Obviously very cheesy, and she rejected me. That girl had a class that got out around the same time my class did, so I would see her periodically. So whenever I saw her, we would say hi, and we would talk like nothing happened. You can get away with a lot of crap, as long as you don't do anything really stupid. (And telling a girl that you're using a pick-up line doesn't even break that barrier, just to give you an idea of how strong that barrier is). And just to give you an idea, I've done some equally stupid stuff on other girls at my college (in the library or whatever). The girl is going to want to avoid the awkwardness as much as possible. Do you think that the next time she sees you, she's going to make a big deal "Oh, that's the guy who hit on me"? People by nature try to avoid confrontation (why do you think approach anxiety even exists, bro?) Besides, chances are she'll probably forget about it anyway. People have other stuff going on in their lives. "Some guy hit on me while I was getting his coffee.....so anyway, Gina broke up with her boyfriend, and my grandmother just got diagnosed with cancer and I'm struggling in my calculus class....." |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Fri May 15, 2015 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
If you see someone that catches your eye, and you would really like to meet, go ahead and approach her. Guys are always afraid of being truthful to themselves. When you do something that you feel is following what you really want, don't mind the outcome. If she doesn't like you, and doesn't want to talk to you, that's fine. Move on to the next girl. But what you'll probably experience is that if you approach a girl, and you're authentic, in 90% of the cases she won't violently reject you, but will want to talk to you. Use this time on the forum as a way of inspiring yourself to do talk to women. However, avoid reading too much about game without experiencing it. It's going to confuse you. |
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| Author: | Chris Bale [ Fri May 15, 2015 3:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I approach on my way to work |
The moment you stop seeing it as an "approach", and instead see it as you verbalizing an observation to a random person without any attachment to a specific outcome...is the moment your life with women will change. The seriousness guys place on an "approach" is why the AA bandwagon exists. Anxiety only exists because of the importance your placing on something that doesnt even matter on the grand scale of things. And the anxiety from this relationship creates pressure....and the pressure creeps the fuck out of girls when you "approach"...which results in them feeling "creeped out"...even if the guy is not a creep. This way of relating to what you are doing is not healthy, and you will never win, or ever be finished. Shift your mindset and way of interacting with you starting conversations with strangers! Chris |
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