Hi everyone!

I have been trying quite a lot of direct day game, and a common response I get right after my opener (or later sometimes) is "I have a boyfriend". Obviously that is a lie most of the time, so how can I deal with it??

Thank you guys

Something like your hair are like my cats hair and she is dead now!

You don't want to learn how to handle this response, you want to learn how to avoid getting it all together.

The fact of the matter is, more often than not when you are hit with this statement it is a subconscious test from her to see if you're worth her time. If you give up the moment this is said or if this statement affects your frame, your goal, and what you are trying to accomplish you are basically sub communicating that you are open to being led by her. Since one statement from her switched up your entire game plan. If you want to lead, you keep you goal in mind despite what it is being said to you at first. " I have a boyfriend" isn't always rejection, its usually a " What are you going to do now? "

When I was younger I would say " How long have you had that problem? " and depending on my frame i would either get a laughing response or a negative one. It doesn't matter what you say though; the goal is to be unmoved by her statement once she says it. If you're frame hasn't shifted, she will shift according to it. As I grew I stopped caring, I'd even ask her questions about the guy, because my ability to generate attraction isn't based on what i am talking about. Its based on the vibe that i am projecting.