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Author:  minion5000 [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 10:56 am ]
Post subject:  wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
tbis is a question
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 11:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
You tell her the truth. simple as that. If she's interested she'll give it to you.
Author:  Chris Bale [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 2:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Start owning the fact that you are there to hit on her.

Own the fact that you like girls, you find them attractive, and you want to kiss, touch, and have sex with them.

The dirty little secret is that women LOVE being desired and made feel sexy by a man who is unapologetic about the fact that he wants her....but knowing he does not need her!

Its a sexy trait man. Own that shit.

"Why do you want my number?" - Because im seducing you OBVIOUSLY. Duh, come on girl get with the program.

Have fun with it!!

Chris
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Why do you want her number? Thats the question.

Is it just so you can feel like you accomplished something? Why not just go straight for a step higher.. why the number?

Too many guys look at numbers as some notch on their belt. When a number isn't anything but a sign that you've made it to first base. First base doesn't score any points. So if someone asked.. Why do you want to hit the baseball? You wouldn't say " So I could get the first base" - That'd be silly. You have bigger goals in mind. At least I hope so. Bigger than scoring a point, bigger than winning the game, you want to win he world series.

So how do you tell her you want to win the world series?

however, if you're being asked this question, you're simple not coming across in a manner in which she feels truly desired by you. You come across as trying to leech off of her. Bring her into your world. Give her something.

Eddie
Author:  H1SOKA [ Fri May 01, 2015 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Quote:
tbis is a question
She wont ask why you are asking if you are providing a context for getting the number.. even if she doesn't LIKE YOU. Girls will give their numbers out to anyone.. for any real reason. Even if they have no intention of calling them back or going on a date. It's just a nice emotional spike that someone appreciated them enough to ask. If they do it it's not for you but purely selfish reasons. It's actually not about you AT ALL.

If you directly ask for her number it's not a game they are playing or a shit test. It's a reasonable question because you haven't established why you need it. There can be no mutual mystification. You should be seeding the idea of the date well before you ask for her number. YOU know why you are asking but she doesn't. She has no fucking idea.

The problem here is something you missed well before you asked for the number. You don't need deep commonalities with her but that obviously helps, but something as simple as showing her a cool bar she hasn't been to or a niche shop that sells cool things gives a plausible reason to ask for the number.

I really don't recommend you be too direct if does ask. This will only make her defensive and feel like a slut, which will cut off the good feelings and attractions and make her get the fuck out of there.
Author:  H4ck3rLarry [ Mon Jun 15, 2015 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
I would count her question as a rejection..and dont pay attention to it..and continue talking.

If i hadnt have the time, then I would have given her an excuse..

I thought to talk to you again. You were a good listener and I dont get many interesting conversation.. people who I know are boring.. and it was surprising to find you interesnting..I thought you were quite boring when I approached you.

Establish cognitive consistency (research that term) before or/and after getting a number. Always do that. Sales people do it!
Author:  breedlove465 [ Mon Jun 15, 2015 1:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Quote:
tbis is a question
If you are asking for her number and she has no idea why then that's your fault.

"I'd love to grab a coffee sometime, give me your number and we can set something up."

"My buddy is having a party tonight, you should tag along. Give me your number and we can meet up there."f
Author:  HugoMoreno [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 6:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Tell her you like doing "cool things" (whatever that is for you)
from time to time and you want her number so you can invite
her

For example:

Why do you want my number?

"I like singing karaoke at this Latin club from
time to time and next time I go I'll send you a text
to see if you want to come along"
Author:  Melodical [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
If she asks a question like that she's either

1/ Shit testing.
2/ Stupid.

Or....

3/ Your escalation needs some work.
4/ You're asking too early.
Author:  husher1 [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 7:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Quote:
Why do you want her number? Thats the question.

Is it just so you can feel like you accomplished something? Why not just go straight for a step higher.. why the number?

Too many guys look at numbers as some notch on their belt. When a number isn't anything but a sign that you've made it to first base. First base doesn't score any points. So if someone asked.. Why do you want to hit the baseball? You wouldn't say " So I could get the first base" - That'd be silly. You have bigger goals in mind. At least I hope so. Bigger than scoring a point, bigger than winning the game, you want to win he world series.



Eddie
totally agree with you bud, most of the time girls give out there number to get you to leave. Make them work for your digits.
Author:  DrewDating [ Mon Jun 22, 2015 10:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
she shouldnt be asking if you have a justified reason. dont just ask "can i haz your numbuh?"

you "you know i havent been to that bar in about 3 years"
her "me either"
you "no way, we should go check it out soon."
her "sounds good"
you "whats the best way of staying in touch?"
her "i'll give you my number"

BOOM
Author:  Lord finesse [ Sun Jul 26, 2015 3:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: wat to say when a girl asks y u want her number?
Tell her you are attracted to her in a strong way and want to kick it with her sometime. And maybe throw in a playful joke. Nothing but a shit test. While your thinking of clever sit to say to her she's thinking of ways to make you work for it.
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