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Author:  JHA91 [ Sun Apr 19, 2015 10:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Openers for Girls With Headphones?
I see a lot of girls with headphones when practicing day game. Obviously they're hard to open because you have to work harder to get their attention. Any lines or special techniques you use to open these girls?

Same with girls on phones but obviously a phone is more of a red light.
Author:  ASmooth90 [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 3:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Openers for Girls With Headphones?
Tap her on the shoulder lightly twice. When she turns to you, give her strong eye contact and say whatever opener (it doesn't really matter). She'll probably take out her headphones and say "what?" At that point, you can just repeat the opener.

Eye contact is key, she will only stop to talk to you if your body language and inner game is on point and congruent.

Sometimes girls won't stop walking, but they will take out their headphones. In those instances, just walk with her. "I don't think I've ever burned this many calories just to talk to a girl before!"
Author:  Black Phantom [ Wed Apr 22, 2015 9:18 am ]
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One of the easiest way to get her to take out her headphones, is by TELLING her to take out her headphones.

I know I know, genius.

But seriously. As she is walking, look at her, walk up to her and stop her. When you stop, make it obvious
that you expect her to stop as well.

Then gesture with your hands as if you are pulling out the headphones from your ears, demonstrating to her
what you want her to do.

One of the things that women really like about a guy is when he is ASSERTIVE and being a man.

And if she doesn't want to, be OK with it. Just let it go. But I assure you, 95% of women will stop and take out
their headphones.
Author:  H1SOKA [ Fri Apr 24, 2015 5:56 am ]
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I see a lot of girls with headphones when practicing day game. Obviously they're hard to open because you have to work harder to get their attention. Any lines or special techniques you use to open these girls?

Same with girls on phones but obviously a phone is more of a red light.
Wait until you approach a girl with ear buds in by accident.. and you'll discover they are no harder to approach than any other girl. The only red flag to me is if a girl is walking very fast in a bee line. She's usually late or going to something that's very important.. more urgent than talking to random guy on the street no matter how cool or confident you are. :lol:
Author:  JHA91 [ Fri Apr 24, 2015 7:04 am ]
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Wait until you approach a girl with ear buds in by accident.. and you'll discover they are no harder to approach than any other girl.
Hey man, I have (deliberately and accidentally). The only draw back is you nearly always have to repeat the initial line and that steals away the thunder, so I was trying to figure out a non-verbal way of negating this fact. Thanks guys.
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Fri Apr 24, 2015 9:14 am ]
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something i do which they find quite funny is to get their attention and mouth something silently. She'll then take out her headphones and say 'pardon?' and then you just do the exact same again - mouthing but not speaking. She'll be confused and then you break it straight away with 'im just messing with you', you'll get a laugh then you can move into whatever game plan you have after that.
Author:  Dick The Hippy [ Mon Apr 27, 2015 8:24 pm ]
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Walk straight up to her with a smile, and pull out one of her headphones.

OR if you have the balls, put it in your ear and say "I like this song"...
Author:  breedlove465 [ Mon Apr 27, 2015 8:47 pm ]
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Walk straight up to her with a smile, and pull out one of her headphones.

OR if you have the balls, put it in your ear and say "I like this song"...
I hate this idea to be honest. Touching a girl or her possessions before she's even acknowledged your presence is super high on the creepy scale. An easy was to freak out a timid girl. I think smiling and motioning for her to pull out the ear phone or just talking to her until she pulls one out is a good option.
Author:  signorval3ncia [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 7:26 am ]
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Walk straight up to her with a smile, and pull out one of her headphones.

OR if you have the balls, put it in your ear and say "I like this song"...
I hate this idea to be honest. Touching a girl or her possessions before she's even acknowledged your presence is super high on the creepy scale. An easy was to freak out a timid girl. I think smiling and motioning for her to pull out the ear phone or just talking to her until she pulls one out is a good option.

Haha, I like the directness but I have to agree unless you can really give off an open, warm, i'm not a creeper vibe, getting touchy can be highly suspect.

Smile, pantomime something like pointing to your ear while moving your lips and if shes open she'll take'em out. I find people typically listen to music in public to not be bored so once you open and cause some interesting havoc in her life she'll forget all about it.

I can remember one instance I just sat down next to a chick, pointed my body at an open angle to her and tapped her shoulder. Really didn't matter what I said as long as the body language and segway to talking to her was creepy or predator like.

The mouthing something silently, like your yelling idea from RockstarPUA is good. Pretend like your yelling and show some character and distinguish yourself from every other guy who would just tap on her shoulder.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 11:01 am ]
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A shoulder tap.

But if you're confident enough. Reach over and lightly pull one of her headphones out. You have to be smooth though. I've gotten exploded on while not fully in the zone. And other times I've gotten a smile and a "What makes you think you can do that?"

The more courageous your beginning the more open a girl will be to you if its done with PURE confidence.
Author:  DominicKrow [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 12:28 pm ]
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Haha)) strong problem in Russia))

Use "The Mime Opener", and you'll get luck
Author:  JHA91 [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Openers for Girls With Headphones?
Ok I like the mime opener, I'm used to miming in clubs since it's the only way you can frigging talk to someone. Miming is funny when used in the proper context. Sorry guys, touching her earphones seems a bit far-fetched - for me, anyway. I'd maybe tap her on the shoulder but it seems too much like something a school kid does to get adult attention.
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 4:39 pm ]
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Not read the responses, but....How would you go about talking to your friend with headphones on?

You just mime her to pull her headphones out and then deliver your opener. Easy peasy.
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