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Author:  Flamboyant [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 4:40 am ]
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alright i'll continue with my last post about the 4 games.

today i went to the convenient store in my university,
and opened like this with the girl:" hey, i remember u told me u were a korean right?"
girl: "yup"
me: "i have a question about korean girls. Do you think they like guys to approach them directly or indirectly? Directly would be like 'hey do u wanna go to watch a movie this friday night?' , indirectly would be like ' hey do you have the time?' "
girl: "hmmm... depends, if the girl is shy, then it's the best to go with indirectly, you should observe a bit"
(i chatted w/ her about this topic while pple were standing in line after me waiting to get somethings LOL)
me: "so, are you a shy girl then?"
girl: "no i am not shy"
me: "then do u wanna go to watch a movie this friday night?"
girl: "ahh sorry i have a boyfriend"
me: " (i was silent for a few secs LOL den i smiled) "
girl: "im sorry about that~with a shrug n smiled"

ha ha man, i'll just believe her. i don wanna get her even if she has a bf, that's not good. cuz in the future, she might dump u for another guy just like this.

and about the 7-11 girl, she used to wear 7-11 uniform, but last friday, yesterday, when i went, she wore her casual outfit... i was wondering if that was for me or not ha ha... a little bit low cut with a sweater jacket on... i mean... she wore 7-11 uniform before all the time, and so do other usual 7-11 counter pple...but she wore her own clothes yesterday... does that count for something? and i said how come she doesn't pick up my phone after she did for twice, then no picking up after that, she said she was busy, working 5 days a week(that's true)
so i told her i'll phone her when she's free, so i asked her wut time to call. So i ended up calling her at that time last night, still no picking up. Could she be playing with my patience? cuz in person, she doesn't neglect me, we talked so well, n when i told her i was disappointed that she didn't pick up my phone, and i even left her a voice mail, then she pulled out her cell n showed me how she doesn't know how to use voicemail...
that's possible just like... few years ago.. i didn't even give a crap wut a voice mail is but...i donno ha ha
i need someone to comfort me hahaha
Author:  sydarm [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 4:56 am ]
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hey, i remember u told me u were a korean right?
wouldn't it be more powerful if u remembered her name rather than her race (no u r not the only one who has trouble w/ the names...i'm just saying)?
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i have a question about korean girls.
just ask

You beat around the bush and didn't do proper direct or indirect game imo. Specifically, I doubt u were interesting/entertaining and u didn't soi and go direct either.

When u went silent for a few seconds on her bf line, u failed the shit test. U were attached to the outcome. Whether or not she has one is irrelevant; pretty girls almost always have somebody in their life...when u were stunned by her statement u made it clear that u wouldn't be in hers.
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i don wanna get her even if she has a bf, that's not good. cuz in the future, she might dump u for another guy just like this.
Welcome to the real world. U could use that backwards rationalization on any situation and say the same thing. Sure she might dump u, did u ever think that u might dump her? Do u have standards? This can't really be used as a crutch unless u know for sure she has a bf...then maybe.

(7/11 girl now)
Okay, if she never answers her phone, is always busy, and won't even listen to ur voicemails...ask urself...what could this possibly mean? Do u think she never talks to anybody or could she perhaps want u to leave her alone?
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i need someone to comfort me
Just work on your game. I've a long way to go myself. These are learning experiences.

Have you read any of the common books on seduction?
Author:  Flamboyant [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 5:47 pm ]
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thanks a lot for the criticism!
now im learning step by step as well haha
when im in my own shoes, things just don't seem so natural and easy,
but when i try to critique, or give advice to others, i tend to do a little bit better sigh~

i have The Game, and haven't even finished it.
and about the name of the girl, nope, i didn't even asked her name before. And the opener i used about 'how do u think i should approach a girl' is from an youtube clip http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFJsmMETwuk, which i think iz a little bit fake but haha.

eventually i'll get it, and before that, lots of practicings are required.
thx again.
Author:  Flamboyant [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 6:02 pm ]
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[(7/11 girl now)
hold on, but did u read the part where she was wearing her casual clothing(must prettier than the 7-11 uniform) when i went this time? she always wore 7-11 uniform though...but after i got her number, n callin' her n stuff, it's not quite usual for her to change into her prettier clothes isn't it?
Author:  sydarm [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 8:14 pm ]
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Not everything that happens in this world is in response to you. U r over-analyzing. If she doesn't return ur calls she doesn't like u. Move on.

Use a more engaging and interesting opener or go direct.
Author:  Flamboyant [ Wed Mar 19, 2008 6:16 am ]
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Not everything that happens in this world is in response to you. U r over-analyzing. If she doesn't return ur calls she doesn't like u. Move on.

Use a more engaging and interesting opener or go direct.
roger that sym.
Author:  Rapture7 [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 1:24 am ]
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hey sydarm what if a girl copies the way you walk? is this a IOI, or maybe she just happens to walk like that?

This was my slow confident im browsing stuff in a store walk Im not really gonna buy anything but im moving slowly becasue I'm relaxed and Im in no particular hurry:)

She was mirroring me and also walking in the opposite direction and we would bump into each other from a straight line. Plus at no time did she look in my direction tho she did know I was there.

Is this coincidence or a huge IOI? omg I don't know why does this have to be so complicated.
Author:  sydarm [ Fri Mar 21, 2008 2:59 am ]
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Erm, I dunno. I do know that body language, walking pace, vocal patterns, etc can mirror each other and signal iois.

Once u start thinking too much about whether or not something is an ioi, iod, or w/e u lose focus on other stuff and the moment will be gone...at least that's what has happened to me. If u feel like u should open, open. Might well have been an ioi if she was making a beeline for you.
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