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| Author: | Adam_Sandler [ Thu Mar 26, 2015 7:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Approach: Goal in mind |
If you have a goal in mind, it makes the approach a lot easier. You are much more focused, and do not dwindled on meaningless conversation. Possible Goals: A. Phone Number B. Isolation: Basically covers meeting girls at bars, parties, etc. and getting them to invest time in you away for the general public. If B is possible, that should be you goal. If you attempt B, and things do not look favorable then fallback on A. Things Common to both approaches: Make eye, confidently smile, and say "whats up" "hey" etc. and move to the person in a confident and deliberate manner. Furthermore, include some sort of invitation in you approach so the girl has a reason to invest more time in you. A: Spark up some benign conversation. Then, make a flirty/witty observation. Next, invite her to a party, event, bar (something more social and public, you can make it up in moment if you have to) Then ask for her number. In the case of getting numbers, the intent is obvious to both you and her after talking for more than a minute. Not many guys are going to stop and approach a random girl just for small talk. B: Spend more time conversing about her, and then invite her to a certain place with the venue. Just take the lead after the invitation like the answer is an assumed yes. If you get resistance, go back to talking and establish rapport, then ask for the number. |
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| Author: | T.R. [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 4:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach: Goal in mind |
Agreed, good post. Most of the time, the goal I use is "Get the girl out the door." Basically, whatever bar/club you're at, get her/them to bounce with you. That could mean just to the sidewalk, the next bar, ice cream, coffee...whatever. Just get her out the door with you. |
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| Author: | poomi [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 4:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach: Goal in mind |
Tell her you'll pop for a sitter so the grownups can have a 'play date'! |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Sat Apr 04, 2015 8:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach: Goal in mind |
so why cant the goal to get laid instead of just get the phone number ? just a thought... |
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| Author: | Adam_Sandler [ Tue Apr 07, 2015 5:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach: Goal in mind |
The goal is to get laid, essentially that's B The secondary goal is getting her number if you cannot get laid on the first interaction |
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