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Author:  Lorray0207 [ Tue Mar 24, 2015 4:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Texting girl after party
Hi,
I am new here and I am looking for help from experienced PUAs.
I met this great girl at a home-party last weekend. We connected pretty fast and made out a little. However, she left to her friend's "good-bye" party, which was just around the corner. Unfortunately she didn’t come back to the party at my place.
All I have is her FB. So messaged her asking how she was doing and that it was too bad that we didn't get the chance to say goodbye properly at the weekend.
She replied back the following:

“Heyhey. I am doing very well (again), hope you are too!?
Unfortunately I can’t really remember why I didn’t make it back to your house….but I guess this wasn’t the last party at your place, right?! ;)”

I am now wondering how and what I should reply. I don’t wanna come on too needy.
I’d appreciate any help or ideas from you.
Thanks
Loray0207
Author:  Dragula [ Tue Mar 24, 2015 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl after party
'Something like that ;p - Would you be interested in joining me for a drink sometime this week, what does your schedule look like? x'
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Mar 24, 2015 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl after party
Quote:
Hi,
I am new here and I am looking for help from experienced PUAs.
I met this great girl at a home-party last weekend. We connected pretty fast and made out a little. However, she left to her friend's "good-bye" party, which was just around the corner. Unfortunately she didn’t come back to the party at my place.
All I have is her FB. So messaged her asking how she was doing and that it was too bad that we didn't get the chance to say goodbye properly at the weekend.
She replied back the following:

“Heyhey. I am doing very well (again), hope you are too!?
Unfortunately I can’t really remember why I didn’t make it back to your house….but I guess this wasn’t the last party at your place, right?! ;)”

I am now wondering how and what I should reply. I don’t wanna come on too needy.
I’d appreciate any help or ideas from you.
Thanks
Loray0207
Hey,

This is basic bro. I think its best for you to learn to take the loss by saying whatever you come up with. You want to learn to not give a fuck. And the best way is to say whatever until the fact of a girl not replying doesn't bother you anymore.

I will say though, her interest is definitely larger than her just wanting to come to a party. Thats a clear " i want you" response.

I'd personally go with - "Haha you were pretty wasted.. how would you of even found it? lol "

That'll position her to comically qualify.

Keep it simple.
Author:  Jasahi [ Wed Mar 25, 2015 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl after party
Hi Lorray0207,

I like both Pebble’s and Eddie.Fews’ suggestions! Actually you may even combine them… Like.. you starts with Eddie.Fews idea and if you get a positive reply (you likely will), keep going and invite her as Pebble suggested! That makes the connection a bit longer and more natural..

Also there are 2 questions in her reply: 1- how are you doing 2- about the next party at your place…

I would personnaly answer the first one by smth like “I’m doing great thanks”… Just basic chit-chat/politeness and it also softens the “you must have been pretty wasted” neg… You dont really need to answer about the next party at your place though, because (1) she knows already the answer: of course there will be other parties, (2) you want to keep in control and see her again BEFORE the next party, (3) you cannot answer so many questions… geez that girl is so demanding :wink:

Good luck!
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