PUA Forum :: How to approach this girl to be my valentine

I would really think about this before you do it.

She's rejected you once already... and I'm gonna go out on a limb and bet it's cause you told her you had a crush on her (or something like that)... instead of just showing her.

Regardless of whether that's the case or not, why do you think an even more public display of affection will help your cause? That's only going to embarrass both of you.

Further, what benefit is there to having her "be your valentine"?

You're way better off just escalating naturally and asking her for a drink IMO.

Author:	KK123 [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 2:30 am ]
Post subject:	How to approach this girl to be my valentine
Okay so obviously this saturday is valentines day. I want to do something special for this girl I like. We have known each other since 8th grade (its not a random girl) but she rejected me 7 months ago. I decided to try again. My plan: -Get her a bouquet of flowers (Not sure what type) -Walk up to her in the morning of my school in the lobby and ask her to be my valentine. Questions: What flowers should I get her (type, how many) without 'over' or 'under' doing it? What should I say to her to approach her? Should I get her friends in on it/ my friends or would that be too much social pressure for her to say yes? Should I go to her house (shes my neighbor) and "ask her on valentines day (saturday)" or "ask her before school on friday", or "at school on friday"? Should i blatantly say "Want to be my valentine" or get on one knee or..? Thanks big help. I was planning on asking her at school because I feel like she will be more appreciative. Though I don't want to 'force' her to say yes, due to the social pressure of the situation. Thanks. One last thing, how should I react if she says no. Im doing this for reference and closure.

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 1:47 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to approach this girl to be my valentine
I would really think about this before you do it. She's rejected you once already... and I'm gonna go out on a limb and bet it's cause you told her you had a crush on her (or something like that)... instead of just showing her. Regardless of whether that's the case or not, why do you think an even more public display of affection will help your cause? That's only going to embarrass both of you. Further, what benefit is there to having her "be your valentine"? You're way better off just escalating naturally and asking her for a drink IMO.

Author:	KK123 [ Fri Feb 13, 2015 12:50 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to approach this girl to be my valentine
Quote: I would really think about this before you do it. She's rejected you once already... and I'm gonna go out on a limb and bet it's cause you told her you had a crush on her (or something like that)... instead of just showing her. Regardless of whether that's the case or not, why do you think an even more public display of affection will help your cause? That's only going to embarrass both of you. Further, what benefit is there to having her "be your valentine"? You're way better off just escalating naturally and asking her for a drink IMO. I'm in highschool at the moment. But I need closure so I'm just going to go for it. I just need to know how I am going to do it.

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