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| Author: | antigirlomagnetic [ Mon Jan 12, 2015 9:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do I find and meet beautiful women? |
Hello MPUAForum, I've a question. Not liking introductions I'll get straight to it. I met a natural not so long ago and have been hanging around him for a while, and what I've recognized is something I'm sure you all know: having beautiful women in your life attract more beautiful women. So I've been working on my self-confidence for a while, and like so many of you have achieved, have started feeling comfortable while talking. I'm ready to get out there, raise the bar and meet and pick-up women. Now here's the problem, I don't have friends who like going out and picking up women, in fact most of my friends are more than a little socially awkward... even compared to me. As a result I either go out with the bunch of them, or with a group of girls I've sort of gathered around myself. These girls aren't the best looking, so they don't do much in the ways of social proof. My friends scare off girls better than a scarecrow does vultures and I'm not the best looking guy, even if I do have a decent personal style. The million dollar question being: How do I build up enough social proof to actually look attractive to the women worth meeting. It feels like a bit of a vicious circle in which: You can't meet girls because you lack social proof, and you can't get good social proof because you aren't meeting these awesome girls everywhere, which you should be doing because of your healthy, socially active lifestyle. Any thoughtful advice would be appreciated TLDR: How do I find/meet beautiful women without social proof, or build up enough social proof to actually get into these circles? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 7:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I find and meet beautiful women? |
Social proof is a tool in pick up, but it's definitely not mandatory to have. If you are interesting and charming, you don't need social proof. No woman is going to turn you away because you don't have an entourage. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I find and meet beautiful women? |
JackZero is spot on as usual. Quote: You can't meet girls because you lack social proof
Drop this belief. Your suave demeanor is all the 'social proof' the girl needs. Think about it.Quote: How do I find/meet beautiful women without social proof
Go up and talk to them.Quote: build up enough social proof to actually get into these circles?
What circles man, no offense intended. You see a hot girl and you go speak to her.
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 8:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I find and meet beautiful women? |
I think the OP has been watching too much Adam Lyon's vids on entourage game and what not. Or, you're simply copying your friend but neglecting what makes him attractive in the 1st place Develop a foundation. Become attractive and then perhaps work on your social proof game after you have earned to be attractive. Sounds like to me you're trying to short cut your way into vagina. It's like learning threesome game when you haven't even handled AA... |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Thu Jan 15, 2015 9:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I find and meet beautiful women? |
Quote: Hello MPUAForum, I've a question. Not liking introductions I'll get straight to it.
*take zumba classesI met a natural not so long ago and have been hanging around him for a while, and what I've recognized is something I'm sure you all know: having beautiful women in your life attract more beautiful women. So I've been working on my self-confidence for a while, and like so many of you have achieved, have started feeling comfortable while talking. I'm ready to get out there, raise the bar and meet and pick-up women. Now here's the problem, I don't have friends who like going out and picking up women, in fact most of my friends are more than a little socially awkward... even compared to me. As a result I either go out with the bunch of them, or with a group of girls I've sort of gathered around myself. These girls aren't the best looking, so they don't do much in the ways of social proof. My friends scare off girls better than a scarecrow does vultures and I'm not the best looking guy, even if I do have a decent personal style. The million dollar question being: How do I build up enough social proof to actually look attractive to the women worth meeting. It feels like a bit of a vicious circle in which: You can't meet girls because you lack social proof, and you can't get good social proof because you aren't meeting these awesome girls everywhere, which you should be doing because of your healthy, socially active lifestyle. Any thoughtful advice would be appreciated TLDR: How do I find/meet beautiful women without social proof, or build up enough social proof to actually get into these circles? *go to meetup.com and find some hobbies *take up crossfit (women love crossfit and you wont see many guys) btw you can create social proof in one single night if you know how to do it |
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| Author: | schoolofromance [ Fri Jan 16, 2015 3:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I find and meet beautiful women? |
Quote: Social proof is a tool in pick up, but it's definitely not mandatory to have. If you are interesting and charming, you don't need social proof. No woman is going to turn you away because you don't have an entourage.
very very well said...used to think that i need entourage of women in order to look attractive...but if you are a cool and interesting guy...women will know if you are pre-selected just from your personality alone... |
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