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Author:  cmace [ Thu Jan 08, 2015 12:47 am ]
Post subject:  Quality of girl
There are some curvy thick girls I find attractive. I can't get past the fact that if I'm out with them, I feel embarrassed because I'm with them and I should be with someone who is in good shape. My friends always have good looking girls. I've been caught making out w some ugly chicks and they remember that. I know I won't get their full support if I was dating someone who is thick curvy. Just for your information I'm a average skinny guy. What's everyone's opinion?
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Jan 08, 2015 1:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
Just do what makes you happy bro.

However, I hope you're doing this because you prefer curvy girls and not because you just feel unworthy of in shape girls.

Please, answer me honestly, name a few pornstars that you like to watch?... I will reply why after you respond.
Author:  cmace [ Thu Jan 08, 2015 1:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
In shape girls where I live are difficult to get. They think they are so hot, but they aren't. The curvy girls are easier to deal with and talk to.
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Jan 08, 2015 6:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
Then you have problems.

Surely you want what you deserve? Instead of taking whatever you can get? You have inner game issues and I dont think you shoul continue with the curvy girls anymore.
Author:  Giffnock [ Thu Jan 08, 2015 4:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
I have a mate with this problem, every time I confront him about it he just tries to say he is not attracted to slim good looking girls which I know is absolute bull :| . He is quite overweight himself and not that good looking of a guy so he has convinced himself that the big fat retards I have see him get off with are attractive. He doesn’t seriously try to get in shape he has money problems and does not have an attractive lifestyle. The simple fact is he feels that a decent looking woman say a 7 or 8 would never be interested in him and to be honest he is probably right!

Low quality men can only get low quality women!
Author:  DrewDating [ Fri Jan 09, 2015 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
Quote:
In shape girls where I live are difficult to get. They think they are so hot, but they aren't. The curvy girls are easier to deal with and talk to.
sounds like more of a self-conscious problem than an actual fetish for fat chicks. especially since you care so much about being in public and making out with fat chicks.

you should work on your confidence so much more.

good news it fit and hot chicks are just as easy if not easier

sometimes fat chicks know you just want to get a quick and easy lay and they will be more bitter toward you. that is just how it is.
Author:  Cdharders [ Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
Talk to more girls you like.

No harm in talking to curvy girls if you are also talking to girls you are more attracted to (though I doubt you will continue talking to the curvy girls once you hone your "skinny girl" game).

Sounds like you are more attracted to the idea of no rejection. Natural feeling. It's happened to me before. What will eventually happen is you'll meet a few curvy chicks who treat you as bad or worse than those skinny chicks and you'll say "F@ck this! You mean I have to deal with this sh*t no matter what size the girl is???! Then, I'm sticking to the girls I at least find more attractive"

Also, you're friends are either haters who only have 1 or 2 girls they can get with or the girls are very large. If you are with friends who are constantly critical, get new friends. Those "friends" are screwing up the one requirement of being a friend, which is support.
Author:  PatrickAnanda [ Mon Jan 12, 2015 2:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
Quote:
There are some curvy thick girls I find attractive. I can't get past the fact that if I'm out with them, I feel embarrassed because I'm with them and I should be with someone who is in good shape. My friends always have good looking girls. I've been caught making out w some ugly chicks and they remember that. I know I won't get their full support if I was dating someone who is thick curvy. Just for your information I'm a average skinny guy. What's everyone's opinion?
Whose life are you living? Yours or your friends?

Are you in incredible shape, to be so judgmental of others?

I'm not saying you should date fat girls out of charity. What I'm saying is that you are falling into the trap most people fall in; you live through others perceptions.

That's a dangerous game to play because it leaves you trapped - you are essentially a slave. Your sense of self is directed by the opinions others hold of you. You are not your own man.

If you find a woman attractive, that is between you and her. Constantly worrying about the results of what you do, the opinions of others, global warming and whatever else your mind can come up with is a giant waste of energy.

Mack
Author:  oceanx [ Tue Jan 13, 2015 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quality of girl
Quote:
In shape girls where I live are difficult to get.
Understand that this quote is nothing more than simply a reflection of your present reality. When you believe you are worthy and know this and outwardly embody this through your demeanor without one single shadow of a doubt, these girls you speak of will swoon for you. This will not occur until you repair your belief system about what you deserve. You then may find that dealing with these 'super hot' (in your eyes) women is easier than you ever imagined.

And nevermind what your friends think or say. Live for yourself.
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