Hey guys,

I have a huge issue which I have been trying to solve without much success.

I am usually quite the extroverted person when going out partying, clubbing etc. I am not an expert but I usually don't just sit around in a corner and stare at people in silence.

My problem is daygame: During the day I simply can't approach a girl as long as there are other people looking, listening in on the conversation.

I live in Singapore and here people are always in a rush. Everything is moving fast and people often walk around in groups and if they are not, then they are just rushing to an appointment or a destination that they have in mind and so on.

This makes it increasingly difficult to just walk over to a girl (that is almost running to some appointment) and just talk to her. In malls this seems quite a bit easier because many people are window shopping but then again, they are in groups.

I have this fear of talking to a girl when other people are listening and "judging" the conversation, this makes me feel awkward and in return, fucks up the whole conversation.

How do I handle a situation, when there are 2 or 3 girls in a mall for example?

-I have tried just asking for a starbucks and then trying to steer that to a conversation by asking if they drink coffee and what their fave brand is etc. but what do I do after? How do I get the nr?

I appreciate your helps brothers

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Do this 100 times tomorrow - say "Hi"

To everyone you come across - old people, children, even people's pets

Do it

Good day Ascend!
Had family that lived in Singapore for 4 years and they all can't wait to leave everything and go back there. You're a lucky man.

Let's talk about something here.

The reason you are feeling uncomfortable is because you are not comfortable with your desires - you haven't accepted your natural manhood so to speak.

That's what bugs me about tactics based game... It's all designed to ensure that you never have to confront your demons and come to fully accept who you are and your place as a man on this earth.

Understand that? A man.

Not a child, not some funny clown, not someone she would love to have as a friend. She wants a man.
I don't think you want to know how to get the number after asking what a girl's favourite coffee is. I don't believe that for a second - You don't give a fuck about what her favourite caffeinated beverage is, anymore than you care about who would win in a fight between SPAM and Superman. It's all mental masturbation.

Look, really think about it. Why is that fear there? Who cares if people are watching. OH NO! God forbid they should see that you are a man who likes women. Wait... What? You are a man... You are designed to like women.

All it takes is for you to accept your masculinity, your desires and who you are, and then something magical starts to happen... You'll actually begin to feel sexy. I'm not talking about horniness here. I'm talking about some almost mystical power emanating from your core that will show in the way you carry yourself, in the way you look at women. When speaking to women, you'll hear a voice in your head whispering "We both know whats up girl... You're already mine". At that point, you can talk about coffee for hours if you want, the outcome is still the same - She better not find herself alone in a room with you. 'Game' becomes an afterthought

That's what people call 'naturals' or 'sex appeal' or whatever. It's that missing spark men in this community chase but don't realize they've had all along. And NONE of this can happen if you don't accept who you are and your desires.

Let the watchers watch and the gossipers gossip. Man the fk up
Be a lion.

With love and respect
Mack
Centered Man Project