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| Author: | AllenDRobinson [ Fri Dec 05, 2014 10:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | No more approach anxiety |
Today I made 5 approaches off the street only with no rejections. The hardest was an "okay" after my opener and she walked away when I was trying to neg . Here's the opener I use . Me: "Did you know some people have tiny feet ?" Her: "Yes, but what about it?" Me: "You see my friend she has tiny feet and people rag on her about it all the time . Not like me I have large feet so I wear big shoes" Her: "oh ,really ?" (Chuckles) And then I follow that up into the next phase A2 if she is hot I neg and then DHV I did this and it plays well with any girl even older babes. I was well into my routine when her friend came from nowhere and made her leave our interaction like "hey, I've got to go . nice meeting you !" Me: nice meeting you too ." blah "she was hott " 7! Good luck at there ! |
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| Author: | ultimateman [ Fri Dec 05, 2014 11:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No more approach anxiety |
a bit cheesy, but i guess it worked for you.  i think the opener itself doesn't really matter. it's your level of confidence and energy that you project that determines whether or not you get a positive reaction from a girl. a simple "hi, what's your name?" works for me any time of the day. it's what you say afterwards and the positive vibe and energy that you project that wins it. |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Sun Dec 07, 2014 4:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No more approach anxiety |
great job dude! but dont worry if you have only done 5 approaches with no rejections i can promise you... rejection awaits you like i said, amazing job out there but dont stick your nose too high because that will just get you to crash and burn a lot more when you do get rejected. kinda like Anderson Silva when he got knocked out by Chris Weidman. man that really got to him... |
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| Author: | veryconfused [ Sun Dec 07, 2014 9:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No more approach anxiety |
Yup, getting stuck in there and actually doing it is half the battle. Just remember to learn from all your successes and failures and you'll keep getting better. Good stuff! |
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| Author: | fudge_88 [ Mon Dec 08, 2014 12:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No more approach anxiety |
Add a logistics question into your repertoire. You'll want to find out who is with her early to understand time constraints. Good job. Keep using the system that allows you to circumvent rejections as much as possible. It will allow you to go after many more girls. 
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| Author: | AllenDRobinson [ Sat Dec 20, 2014 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: No more approach anxiety |
I'm glad to read your replies and allow me to elaborate on the topic . I have sarged with this opener in my repitoir for example it leads to interactions like: Me "did you know some people have tiny feet ?" Her: "Yes" (compliance) Me: "That's why I like you" IOI ing her for her compliance readily and continue escalating when you want to kino her this helps . Or Me: " Did you know some people have tiny feet?" Her: "Why'd you say that?" ( I have options here ) and this could lead to me negging because i know I'm wanting her compliance and this is good for frame control . Let's remember group theory is important , IOD and then DHV to the set . An elderly man recently told me that the problem with most young people these days is that they don't have patience . Its more than a learning experience when we begin to understand that this takes time and setting aside logic and take a deep breath and realize ! Be Confident |
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