What up!

I've always wondered that same thing. Like you said, you don't want to be that guy creeping on her Facebook. That's held me back form saying what's up before and nothing became of it.

but this girl sounds like she's someone you run into on a regular basis. If so, I'd try to do it in person and just walk up and introduce yourself.

If you're not likely to see her again, I think it's totally cool to send a quick message just as long as it's straight up like "hey, you came up on my feed and I swear I saw you at ______. Am I right or am I being that creepy guy on Facebook hitting up all the cute girls right now?"

If you don't do anything, obviously shit's not going down.

but I find that regardless of whether its online or in person, being straight up and making light of the situation is always powerful. Just own the fact that you're attracted to her. It's a good thing.

Hope this helped. Helped me haha

Better do it! If you dont you would have had no chance in the first place. its either you do something about it or you dont.

Honestly I'm sure there is a lot to this story. all I have to go off of is two posts so I really have no clue what your flavor is when it comes to game. Everyone's is deferent.

What I do know is that communicating openly and owning the fact that you're attracted to her and would like to see if she is a cool person too, is always a good thing. Wouldn't go waving my dick around in the name of being honest either. Obviously rapport is important before she she's my johnson.

I know its dangerous saying its "always a good thing", since only Sith deal in absolutes.

But even if you fall flat on your face, as long as you were being real in your approach you shouldn't give a flying fuck if someone rejects you. I don't care if its a 10 or your dad. If someone rejects you for you, it's good you got that on the table.

Now you won't waste your time being someone you're not to make someone else happy.

And if she digs you being a man and owning the fact that you are attracted pretty girls, then you are in my man. In a big way.

Again, don't be overly aggressive, but telling a pretty girl she's pretty isn't bad.

Maybe this was a little ranty and got off topic but regardless of the situation, it's better to try and fall on your ass as yourself, than miss your shot or get in as someone else.

Takes a bold man, to attract a Foxy woman

anytime man! I just barely got on this forum, but it's been cool sharing some stuff i've learned. Not saying in any way that I have all the answers because I'm learning something new about relationships all the time. It's part of why I'm here.

But it's cool talking to other guys trying to get their shit together with women.

Makes me think...

anyway good luck man, and if you're still on here when you make your move, let me know how it went.

the only thing that keeps spinning in my head is " you will be that loser creep" haha !

She looks like a keeper!