PUA Forum :: Girl in my year at college?

I would approach her but I feel like within 20 minutes she'd realize I'm a dude who doesn't drive a car and still lives with his parents. I know the basics of PUA but I often go for girls not quite at her level. Though if there was any kind of strategy for this one I felt would work I'd go for it. Any advice? suggestions?

Dude you deserve this girl. If you are attracted to her...you deserve her. The fact you live with your parents or dont drive a car doesnt mean jack shit.

Sure, girls are attracted to a guy with superficial things...but do you know what they are MORE ttracted to?...a guy that makes them feel a range of emotions. I lived with my parents until i was 22, had no car, and was broke!...but, i figured out that emotional impact is all you need to seduce and attract girls.

You are a badass. Be the silent mysterious badass. You do NOT have to be all nice and speak to her about bullshit such as your classes and homework...if so, you are immediately lumped into the category of every other guys she speaks to in school.

Approach her, say hi, and let her know you have come to blatantly hit on her for a few minutes as you are bored. You do not have to tell her how pretty or cute she is, but call out the situation. You are there to flirt with her.

Have fun. Be playful. Find out what she does OUTSIDE of school. Show her that you are interested and curious about her and who she is. If you dont know how to get that across...say "I curious about you, whats your story". Have you ever thought of the fact that once you speak to her she may bore you? You may not actually like her!?

You got this, and you deserve it! Keep it simple! No need to do any PUA shit.

So your basically asking him to continue expressing himself in a way that furthers his feelings of unworthiness. This is a slippery slope!

Dude you deserve this girl. If you are attracted to her...you deserve her. The fact you live with your parents or dont drive a car doesnt mean jack shit.

Approach her, say hi, and let her know you have come to blatantly hit on her for a few minutes as you are bored.

your much better to enjoy simply crashing and burning whilst being your honest self.

You do NOT have to be all nice and speak to her about bullshit such as your classes and homework...if so, you are immediately lumped into the category of every other guys she speaks to in school.

Author:	Diarm0 [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 8:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Girl in my year at college?
There's a very hot girl in my year at college, I have been noticing her for a while now, we are constantly catching each others eyes, whenever I walk into a lecture hall or spot her while I'm at the gym we always seem to notice each other. I'm certain at this stage she knows my name though we have never been introduced, there is definitely some kind of attraction there I can feel it. The problem is that we are quite different people, She's very popular and studious, I'm a bit of a slacker, I have my friends but I'm not everybody's cup of tea. She's constantly surrounded by her friends and a multitude of jocks. I'm fairly confident in my looks and I consider myself a cool guy but it feels like she's out of my league, if she is attracted to me it's probably because she finds me mysterious since I'm a tall fairly attractive guy who hasn't approached her yet. I would approach her but I feel like within 20 minutes she'd realize I'm a dude who doesn't drive a car and still lives with his parents. I know the basics of PUA but I often go for girls not quite at her level. Though if there was any kind of strategy for this one I felt would work I'd go for it. Any advice? suggestions?

Author:	oceanx [ Sat Oct 25, 2014 7:28 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl in my year at college?
Quote: I would approach her but I feel like within 20 minutes she'd realize I'm a dude who doesn't drive a car and still lives with his parents. I know the basics of PUA but I often go for girls not quite at her level. Though if there was any kind of strategy for this one I felt would work I'd go for it. Any advice? suggestions? Don't make the initial approach that long at all. If you never catch her alone it's a bit trickier in a college environment but if you catch her alone just go up and say 'hey i think you're in my X class.' Then b.s. about the class for a bit. Ask a little about her, tell her a little about you. Don't reveal anything to her you don't want her to know about. If she's vibing well with you and you sense good sexual chemistry you can close with "hey i gotta run to class we should hang out sometime" and take her #. Another way to get ur foot in the door is to get her to be a study partner with you.

Author:	Chris Bale [ Mon Oct 27, 2014 12:10 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl in my year at college?
Dude you deserve this girl. If you are attracted to her...you deserve her. The fact you live with your parents or dont drive a car doesnt mean jack shit. Sure, girls are attracted to a guy with superficial things...but do you know what they are MORE ttracted to?...a guy that makes them feel a range of emotions. I lived with my parents until i was 22, had no car, and was broke!...but, i figured out that emotional impact is all you need to seduce and attract girls. You are a badass. Be the silent mysterious badass. You do NOT have to be all nice and speak to her about bullshit such as your classes and homework...if so, you are immediately lumped into the category of every other guys she speaks to in school. Approach her, say hi, and let her know you have come to blatantly hit on her for a few minutes as you are bored. You do not have to tell her how pretty or cute she is, but call out the situation. You are there to flirt with her. Have fun. Be playful. Find out what she does OUTSIDE of school. Show her that you are interested and curious about her and who she is. If you dont know how to get that across...say "I curious about you, whats your story". Have you ever thought of the fact that once you speak to her she may bore you? You may not actually like her!? You got this, and you deserve it! Keep it simple! No need to do any PUA shit.

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Mon Oct 27, 2014 12:52 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl in my year at college?
Quote: Dude you deserve this girl. If you are attracted to her...you deserve her. The fact you live with your parents or dont drive a car doesnt mean jack shit. Sure, girls are attracted to a guy with superficial things...but do you know what they are MORE ttracted to?...a guy that makes them feel a range of emotions. I lived with my parents until i was 22, had no car, and was broke!...but, i figured out that emotional impact is all you need to seduce and attract girls. You are a badass. Be the silent mysterious badass. You do NOT have to be all nice and speak to her about bullshit such as your classes and homework...if so, you are immediately lumped into the category of every other guys she speaks to in school. Approach her, say hi, and let her know you have come to blatantly hit on her for a few minutes as you are bored. You do not have to tell her how pretty or cute she is, but call out the situation. You are there to flirt with her. Have fun. Be playful. Find out what she does OUTSIDE of school. Show her that you are interested and curious about her and who she is. If you dont know how to get that across...say "I curious about you, whats your story". Have you ever thought of the fact that once you speak to her she may bore you? You may not actually like her!? You got this, and you deserve it! Keep it simple! No need to do any PUA shit. This is actually fairly inspiring - and a decent way to look at things, OP... The deeper issue - because you do not feel you're good enough for her - is your inner game and getting your head on straight... Knowing your actual worth and being king of the castle. Figuring this out is a longer battle, though, and you won't win it in time to get this particular girl. I would disagree with this poster who says you don't need any PUA shit here. If YOU feel the girl is out of your league and you're nervous and you think things won't go well, there's nothing wrong with using a plan of attack and using some tactics that will give you some confidence and give you a better % chance of success. Listen to oceanx - I like his approach. Make it short and sweet... come off well, and get the number.

Author:	Chris Bale [ Mon Oct 27, 2014 1:47 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl in my year at college?
So your basically asking him to continue expressing himself in a way that furthers his feelings of unworthiness. This is a slippery slope! If your choosing to take on any behaviour, at least take on the behaviour that assumes you have self worth and value. Because by externally taking that behaviour on, it will begin to effect you internally and build that strength. I wish I could put a warning on the pua tactics advice! You don't need it. It's bad for you. Your already awesome. Sure you may not feel that way currently. But instead of adopting weak mindsets, your much better to enjoy simply crashing and burning whilst being your honest self. Stay true to you dude.

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Author:	CharlesFinley [ Mon Oct 27, 2014 2:03 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl in my year at college?
Quote: So your basically asking him to continue expressing himself in a way that furthers his feelings of unworthiness. This is a slippery slope! Um, no - I'm telling him to lean on some methodology that works instead of "believing" he can get a date with her with sheer confidence and no skill... He's here cause what he's doing hasn't been working... Most people get into this to make a change. OP's confidence is clearly not there... And while I completely get what you're saying -- and I agree that motivation and confidence is a huge part of this puzzle... He's not going to develop the amount he needs in the next few days. Or weeks... Or probably months. It takes time.

Author:	oceanx [ Tue Oct 28, 2014 4:36 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Girl in my year at college?
Quote: Dude you deserve this girl. If you are attracted to her...you deserve her. The fact you live with your parents or dont drive a car doesnt mean jack shit. 100% agreed. Quote: Approach her, say hi, and let her know you have come to blatantly hit on her for a few minutes as you are bored. Given the OP's background and lack of experience, approaching with a line such as what is quoted above could come off as highly incongruent. Additionally in a college and classroom environment a pickup line such as this is also incongruent. You are also DLV'ing yourself with the 'bored' line. As if there is nothing better to do than waste your time - which you do not feel is valuable - on her. Not really making the girl feel good about either herself or you. Quote: your much better to enjoy simply crashing and burning whilst being your honest self. This is college game and not club game where you'll never see the woman again. Who knows how many classes of his she'll be in over the years. You're much better for short & long term reasons to go in innocuous and feel out the situation. Quote: You do NOT have to be all nice and speak to her about bullshit such as your classes and homework...if so, you are immediately lumped into the category of every other guys she speaks to in school. The words that are said are irrelevant unless their content is seen as creepy. There was no suggestion to come off as nice. A girl will swoon if you are talking about hangnails if done with the right tonality and body language. It's more important to come with a strong vibe in any event - hence the suggestion to feel out if there is sexual energy and make a move at that point, not spill your guts out to the girl that you are going to hit on her which with the wrong calibration could come off as Creeper level 10.

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