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| Author: | Kil4pinkphat [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 2:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Well guys there is a HB9 in my economics class. Me and my bro were coming out and messing around to wait on her to get behind us. He has a girlfriend so when we were going out I was going to hold the door but he got ahead of me and did it. Didn't expect this because he has a girl. He was like sorry man, habit for a good looking girl. On the way out further almost to our car he says so did you understand anything our teacher said? (he was foreign). She was like yah some of my family is from (wherever he was from) and so she is used to it. I laughed and said I noticed he put you down for Pepsi when you said you don't even like soda and she just kind of laughed and went on about how she doesn't even like soda etc. Then we both went our separate ways not saying anything. How should I approach her next time, what should I say? Not sure if she has a boyfriend or not lol. |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 4:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Talk about something relevant or funny that happened in class. You can ask her a question about a particular topic that was discussed and then transition about talking about her. |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 10:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
With these girls you want to figure out her situation first , if she is single or not, not that it matters muahaha( im bad) anyway, id go with a casual question , theres so many freakin excuses you can come up with for conversation is ridiculous, what you need to do is grow the balls and just do it, dont be afraid to ask her if shes single either, nothing wrong with that. After that is basic light fun chatter, flirting, connecting and closing, see how she reacts to your initial banter, girls will useually give signals if they are interested. For me the fact that she responds to me and is smiling is enough for me to move things forward. Just be a cool fun guy, dont be a dumb creeper. As long as things dont stale out and you keep escalating accordingly, you should be going on a date with her in no time. So be smart about it, be cool, and get it done. Remember you see her everyday in class so be slick, but get your point across, I hope im making scence here lol, good luck. Sidenote : Your frame should be man to woman communication, nothing wrong with liking a girl so dont be nerveous when asking her out, after all your a guy and shes a girl... isnt that normal? Haha. |
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| Author: | Kil4pinkphat [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 11:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Had a class with her this mornin before I ready most of the posts. Came in contact with her after the class. My bro was behind me and I opened the door real fast for somer reason and I almost hit her but he caught it. He's like dude you almost hit the girl out loud and I was like sorry. So she keeps walking infront of us and I asked her if she understood what the professor was talking about in class etc. and she explained, then I asked if I really almost hit her. She laughed and said no I know how to catch a door. I said good I don't wana be they guy just hitting girls with doors haha. She respond yah I wouldn't like that I would get mad. Them my bro interrupted when I said not too ad ruined the rest. Most convos are about 400 ft worth of walking from class to parking lot. Have I ruined my chances? She gives off this vibe like she knows I'm flirting but I'm not sure |
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| Author: | Ardour [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 3:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
tell your bro to back the fuck off. "dude you almost hit her" in front of her is such an AMOG. he's throwing your vibe off. if your talking to her, he should be walking 50ft behind you. keep going mate, the situation looks good. maybe a good excuse to hang out would be a little bit of tutoring? if you can't understand what the prof is saying. |
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| Author: | Kil4pinkphat [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 4:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Yah I told him to stay away this time he's throwing my vibe off for sure because when he interrupts it makes the whole conversation go south.. |
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| Author: | Kil4pinkphat [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 7:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Also should I try again tomorrow after class when I have the chance or should I wait a few classes so I don't come off as that guy who keeps bothering me after class? This will be the 3rd interaction the 3rd day of classes. |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 11:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Lol wether you bother her now or 3 days from now your still gona come off as "the guy" so keep the ball rolling and see where the cards fall. Either she likes you or not, find out. Take it or leave it baby, she'll respect you for trying.  just dont be a creeper, if she dont want it play it cool and move on.
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| Author: | Kil4pinkphat [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 11:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
I overheard her talking about her boyfriend. So I did not pursue her today. I have my eye on another target and many more...so I will get some practice in before long At college there is plenty. 1 thing that kind of holds me back from going in sometimes is thinking "they are so hot they have to have a boyfriend".
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| Author: | dtrak [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 2:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Incredible success with women comes from 100% positivity 100% optimism 100% compulsure and self control. Next time the unhelpful thought "shes hot she must have a boyfriend" comes up replace it with "I like this girl, lets find out what she is about" - thats a begginer positive thought. I would personally think "mmm she wud look so good doggystyle"- and go in. Theres diffrent levels of thoughts that can motivate you. But to arrive at a level in which positivity will exude from your body. You must embark on the journey of becoming a true mother fucking bad ass. Take on role models, take on hobbies that empower you, ultimately become th3 king of your world. Why should she fuck a pessimistic loser? The good thing is no one is bound to stay that way, pay your dues, reach the top. Thats where true success with women lies. And most importantly, enjoy he journey. Become a sex worthy man. |
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| Author: | Kil4pinkphat [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 3:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Thanks man, your words mean alot! I am no stranger to keeping on trying. I am a strength trainer in the gym. I workout 4 days a week and that is my hobby that empowers me. I am in great physical shape and I know I am a point in my life where I know that I actually look good when I look in the mirror with my shirt off. Alot of confidence comes from that. I will have to control my thoughts when I think she might have a boyfriend. I will keep trying and keep doing it until I get better because that's what I'm used to with everything else in life that I do. Thanks for all your support! |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Fri Aug 22, 2014 11:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a girl in my college class-how? |
Oh sweet man nice to hear that ! Keep up the good work then ! All you need to do is control those thoughts, become very positive and just sorround yourself with more women to get a bigger understanding. I live in miami so I tend to go out alot and have a cycle of women at all times which alllow me to look at things from a more abudant perspective which is how life really is, theres a big world out here of women and alot want your cock, some dont. Dont limit yourself and if a girl in school didnt want it, doesnt mean another one somewere else wont love it. Keep trying, keep improving and its in the bag ! Thats another thing, everyday feed your mind, the thing that has helped me the most with getting my thoughts right is reading I recommend "the monk who sold his ferrari" -robin sharma "The 50th law"- 50cent "The power of now" eckhart tolle is dope but a bit deep And the best book on honest attraction I ever read I wish I would have had when I was a noob, this is true game "Models" by mark manson, that book is a great read to meet women wihout problems. |
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