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Author:  .Sage. [ Sun Jun 15, 2014 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
What are your opinions in this? Seems a bit boring to me
Author:  overworm [ Mon Jun 16, 2014 12:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
When you try to approach a HB with those types of questions, make sure it's not smth that can easily be answered with a yes or no (it's not even challenging). This is not a solid opener if you don't have anything to follow up on this regardless what her answer will be. But it's neither a bad opener. It's just not original, and attractive girls tend to hear it often.

That's my 2cents.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sat Jun 21, 2014 3:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
Quote:
What are your opinions in this? Seems a bit boring to me
You need to be able to respond to her objection quickly. In many cases she may say "Yes"....

you could then playfully tease her about her imaginary boyfriend.



The whole approach you're looking for is wrong IMO. It seems to be you're worrying too much if she has a boyfriend or not. Assume every woman you approach is single and is attracted to you. Worry about the obstacles later.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jun 23, 2014 7:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
Quote:
What are your opinions in this? Seems a bit boring to me

Why would you ask that and give her the opportunity to say "Yeah, I do."

Girls already use "I have a boyfriend" to get rid of guys ALL THE TIME.

You're just giving her an easy out.
Author:  LIFE PUA [ Mon Jun 23, 2014 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
I would like to add, every attractive girl has some form of BF or guy on the side she has strung along. You need to accept that you will be taking her from other guys no matter what. Having a boyfriend is relative, labels do not matter as much. The question is, is she committed to him. Most likely no, so keep on Gaming.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 7:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
One of the oldest kind of PUA techniques, that's very effective is push-pull that i don't hear
many guys talk about it anymore.

Push pull is based on how attraction works. To create attraction in anything, like two magnets
you need 2 opposite poles of something.

To create attraction with a girl, you need two opposite feelings - a feeling that she's being pulled
in (complimented) and pushed away (teased).

So if you say "You're cute,(PULL) do you have a boyfriend (another pull because you're showing
interes

You'll probably not create attraction. It can work, because really anything can work, but
I wouldn't bet on it.

A better way to say this is "You're cute(PULL)...to bad you're not my type(PUSH)

or

"Do you have a boyfriend?(PULL)...Because that guy (you pick the worst guy around and point
to him) said you're really cute (PUSH)"

or

"You're really cute...(PULL), if you were blonde(dark) you would be totally my type (PUSH)

Constant pulling or giving compliments will never work in creating attraction with a girl. But
by playing with the opposites, you will create attraction and interest.
Author:  alphabro [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
"you're cute, where's your boyfriend?"


I'm not a fan of these kind of openers though
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 1:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
Don't use any opener which gives her the opportunity to blow you off with a single word...
Author:  Playboi_ [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
I am all about that notion that it is not what you say, but how you say it. That being said, there are better ways to word that sentiment. How about getting super ballsy and saying "boyfriend or not, we're flirting tonight."

Personally, I would have not mention of anything boyfriend. Her mind may not have even gone there yet and you just planted it.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 1:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
For me direct opener work best as I can steer the direction to sexual pretty fast this way.

Yet one thing to note at here I had already transform myself pretty much to a sexy, masculine man.

That's why no much game is needed to attract a girl, I already attract girl with my presence during initial approach.

In my opinion, this is the best way to get really high quality girl and I am getting those girl right now.

Might be you should work on yourself now, instead of tweaking all those conversation there.


Carpe diam
Naughty Napoleon
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
Main reason this is a bad idea: It basically says "Hi, random girl I know nothing about, I think I want you to be my girlfriend". Not only does the girl have to find you visually very appealing to reply well to this, she's going to have a very unhelpful idea of you as a person right out the gate. Namely that you're totally single and believe strongly in "traditional dating".
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 11:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
So if a girl said to you 'Do you have a girlfriend' it's okay to say yes or maybe if you don't fancy her or you're not sure about her but she's just stringing you along and isn't allowed to do the same is what you are really all saying. Fucking double standards there.
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Jul 04, 2014 11:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
Not sure how it's a double standard as both sexes use the BF/GF objection in the exact same way.
Girls use it to mean "I'm not attracted to you, go away" and guys use it to mean "I'm not attracted to you, go away".
Author:  Dwele [ Sat Jul 05, 2014 12:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "You're cute, do you have a bf?"
I wouldn't use this line because like all our brothers here said it makes it easy for her to just walk off. I have been in situations where I've approached some dimes and I would blow a good interaction with a lame ass opener that is not open ended and interesting. Example I was in the club in Washington DC and this bad ass exotic chick was crossing in front of me and I had to think fast I opened her with "My friend is coming, and is engaged suddenly to this girl they just met." I ask her for her opinion we got into a deep conversation about relationships and she let me feel up and down her legs and shit. Then her bf walked up. I say that to say all of the guys in that club wanted her but she just gave them one answer and kept it movin.
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