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| Author: | exatta [ Wed May 28, 2014 8:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | On approachng a group of 3 girls, I am abused. |
I am a college student. 3 girls were gossiping in the college campus. On approaching them and some initial conversation, they "come to know" that none of them knew me previously. On getting this, they told me(a bit rudely) that they never saw anyone approach a group of stranger girls. I bypass this by telling that we are all strangers when we are born. Please advice is there anything better which I could have told? Moreover they then got up and said we are busy and moved on from there. This girls getting up from the conversation happened twice before with me. Please advice what do I tell to stop them from getting up and keep the conversation going? |
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| Author: | Cp303 [ Wed May 28, 2014 7:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On approachng a group of 3 girls, I am abused. |
I believe the best friends test might play/be appropriate here. Identify your target and neg her..then ask the other two girls if they are bf's and if they look you in the eye and answer without needing eachothers affirmation, then you know they are being true. If they have to look to eachother for affirmation before they answer you know they are full of sh*t. Use their answer as a means to open them then continue to neg your target. Campus' are perfect places for time constraints/ changing of locations etc. "I cant stay long I am late for my sex-ed/women studies class but I saw the three of you here. Im glad i came up to you too, cos from a distance I thought you were the three stooges and I wanted an autograph...then go right into the neg/opener.. My first post here, I hope this can help player. Cp |
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| Author: | sugarwallz616 [ Thu May 29, 2014 8:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On approachng a group of 3 girls, I am abused. |
Sometimes girls will be icey, that is just how college girls can be unfortunately. In regards to your approach. DHV in your body language and your speech and smile, display that you have a reason and a right to talk to anyone that you please. In regards to mid game Wit is key, but luckily wit is something you can learn through repetition and exposure. Vary in your subjects and show that you are a well-rounded man with alot going for him, apply "DHV Spikes". If they blow you off? It may happens, especially if they are attractive or with a group of female friends they want to impress; This very well could be in your favor. If they do blow you off, you can maintain or even increase DHV by leaving in good spirits, or as Nick Sparks may suggest be a bit patronizing such as "well... It was great talking with you all, yall were great conversation, i have to get back to doing (something interesting)". Women understand that other women can be icey, so don't let it get to you. College game is different, and is in some ways a lot more "cut and dry". I suggest reading the "Campus Code", this is a book that kind of breaks it down for you, if you have question PM me. I'd like to help. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Fri May 30, 2014 8:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On approachng a group of 3 girls, I am abused. |
My philosophy is that by approaching, you put yourself in a weak position. It becomes obvious that you want something from them - you want to pick them up, or in a more innocent perspective you at least want to become friends, as if you don't have any friends and need to start from scratch. That's why such direct approaches are bad IMO. It requires some experience and finesse to be able to approach strangers. How to approach, some options: 1. If possible, let a friend introduce you. 2. Throw a comment out as the girl/girls pass by (or stand nearby), but don't walk up to them. Stay where you are and talk louder if necessary. Ignore them if they walk away. 3. Start talking to people around you and them. Mingle around without any apparent target in mind, and slowly progress towards your target. 4. With experience, you should be able to approach directly without any risk of rejection. The trick is to have something relevant to tell, without expecting anything in return. Be ready to walk away at any time, as if you couldn't care less, since you didn't really want anything anyway. Build rapport When you say that you "tell that we are all strangers when we are born" it becomes obvious that you want something from them and that you are trying to hide it. This definitely doesn't build rapport. Instead, say something that makes them comfortable, preferably something that is true: 1. First confirm their feelings by saying something like: "I know this is unusual, but..." 2. Then give them a reason. Any bullshit reason works: "I just feel so happy today". Or perhaps something more direct, relevant and honest: "I thought you guys looked interesting". 3. Give them a chance to escape. "I can leave if you want to be alone". This will most likely make them feel comfortable around you, and accept your presence. There are occasions where people want to be left alone no matter how nice you are though, in which case you should respect that and leave. |
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| Author: | TheGameSays [ Sun Jun 01, 2014 12:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: On approachng a group of 3 girls, I am abused. |
I actually really liked your response about all being strangers when you're born. Using that same angle I'd go with something like these: Girl: I've never seen anyone just go talk to strangers like this... You: Oh, so you two are related then? Girl: What? No... You: Oh, that's crazy! -- Girl: Hmm...? You: I thought you would be since you don't ever talk to strangers (smile) or.. Girl: I've never seen anyone just go talk to strangers like this... You: That's because you're probably the dominant type. You're the one who probably approaches people that you don't know, hence why you don't ever see it happen. After all, you and the quiet one over here (point to her friend,) became friends somehow, right? *she may whimper or make some sort of comment* You: Look, I have to take off anyways. I just wanted to come say hello and see if you were as interesting as it appeared. I'm sure I'll see you around campus.. Next time, we won't be strangers (smile/stand up) *Maybe, at this point, she might ask for your name or seem interested in what you're all about. Now, when she's talking, you have to be in a "hurry" for your next class. This is your "we'll catch up soon and I'll answer all your questions, I promise" get away. |
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