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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Mon May 19, 2014 3:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Direct Game With Multiple Women in a Group |
So today i approached a set with a direct opener and said "hey you guys are really cute, especially you (singling out this one girl) and I just wanted to come over here and talk with you guys." It was a two set and the girl who didn't get the "especialy you" part kinda cocked blocked the situation. So what are some tips on approaching a group directly with multiple people within the group? |
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| Author: | GGplayer [ Mon May 19, 2014 3:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct Game With Multiple Women in a Group |
Depends on the situation, but if I approach a group in crowded, loud bar or club, I try to single one out, approach her, and eventually have her introduce me to her friends. Women accept the fact that their friends will be approached, and it's normal in a loud place to only talk with one out of the group, but it's weird to not introduce yourself eventually so you gotta do that. If it isn't possible to single out one, whether she's physically situated in a place where you'd have to walk through the group to talk to her, or any other reason it may be socially awkward, I approach the whole group as if it were 1 person. Eventually, one of them will single herself out by being the loud talkative one. If it's the girl you want, fine. If not, you want to eventually work her into the conversation by asking her opinions and focusing on her, trying to make a connection without alienating the rest. Following that, you have to isolate her, and in both scenarios that requires making her feel comfortable with you, and making the group comfortable with letting her go as well. |
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| Author: | alxbkr [ Tue May 20, 2014 11:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct Game With Multiple Women in a Group |
I introduce myself to the group, compliment the group, "Actually I mainly came here to flirt with her. Can I borrow her for a few minutes?" |
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| Author: | alphabro [ Wed May 21, 2014 7:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct Game With Multiple Women in a Group |
After you say "especially you" ask their names.. Tell the girl that you didn't single out she has a pretty name. The point is to make her comfortable. |
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