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| Author: | stateofarrest [ Sat May 03, 2014 9:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Listening to Music opener |
A new opener I came up with today, but bottled it before I could do it - but I'm definitely field testing it as soon as an opportunity comes back round. I listen to music, but I stopped for ages because it was stopping me approaching women, it was stopping me from actually interacting with people, but I had my headphones in (the buds, not the big stupid looking ones by dr.dre or anything, just small iPhone ones), and I was sat at the bus stop next to a hb7-8, also listening to music - and she looked cool as, big hair, a bandana tied around her forehead, dressed like a celebrity at a party and i was looking for something to do, say without just gawking at her. And then it hit me! probably too late to really try it and succeed - just get her attention point to your ear mouth the words "what are you listening to?"! and offer your ear bud to her and just share the music round! I have a real thing for hipsters and hippy girls, and so they'll probably dig the music I'm listening to anyway, but I think as long as you have a discernible music taste (i.e. anything that isn't either grandad music, or chart hits) I think you'll be fine. And boom - conversation, about music! leads to dates at gigs/nightclubs/any live music going on I am going to try this as soon as it comes around - Anyone got any feedback? advancements? how I can make it better? |
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| Author: | balletproof [ Sun May 04, 2014 4:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Listening to Music opener |
I ride the train alot and I am also conscious of listening to music since I feel like it gives me another extra excuse to not do approach. keep us updated on how it goes |
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| Author: | stateofarrest [ Fri Jun 06, 2014 3:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Listening to Music opener |
Finally got to try it out. Worked really well, as with most openers, they never work out how you plan them too - really, starting to think they are a bit redundant, just find something to say your're comfortable with and see where it goes. I sat in a park, she was opposite me, and after a while (after I texted, facebooked etc to make it seem like I was there on normal, lunch break business) I pointed at my ears and asked her what she was listening to, and boom conversation about music, as that simmered out she asked why I was sat in a park and boom - in a conversation about nothing and everything! Didn't number close or anything because I didn't need to - I've noticed her loads around our town centre, so rather than add a creepy element to it, I'll let her think it over about how confident and sociable I am, and when I see her again, another fun conversation later and I'll get her number then. |
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