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Author:  S0ul [ Tue Apr 15, 2014 10:34 am ]
Post subject:  Newbie needs help!
Hi i'm fairly new here! I don't have much experiece in approaching and opening or girl whatsoever, i've read some stickies here and there! I've changed alot the last months by doing more sports / losing weight / eating healthier etc

But I'll explain my situation:
So there is a girl I would love to get to know, i've spend 1 year on the same school. In that time we made quite some eyecontact/smiling etc.. She's still a student there.
So on one wednesday when I was driving arround and saw her waiting for the bus! The next wednesday I went over to the busstop (hoping) to make a quick chat and introduce myself, but I noticed that she had virtually no time to talk, because her (overlycrowded) bus was going to depart.
I know her name and thought about opening on facebook, but it feels too wrong for me.
So dear pua's what are my options here? How can I open to her?
Author:  Puzzled [ Tue Apr 15, 2014 2:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie needs help!
First and foremost. Read Mystery Method. Thats a start. Second, don't worry about working out and sports, they're an asset, but they aren't going to win you the girls, your persona does. Don't friend her on facebook, thats giving her a reason to think of why you went out of your way to look her up in your free time, remember women analyze all these details. Hitting a girl when she is off guard is the best time to do it, you don't need to talk to her unless you know that you can hook her enough time to build an attraction for you. If I was you I would find a way to speak with one of her friends or having a friend (pivot; which should be a girl) to help you get into talking with her, remember girls let down their guards when they have other girls around, if you walk up to her with a pivot she wont feel as though you are a threat and are going to ask her for her number or tell her that she is beautiful like the rest of the dudes on the planet. Be different. Tell me more about your relationship with this girl, how you know her, how long you have and so on and I can come up with an opener that you should put into your personality and try using.
Author:  S0ul [ Tue Apr 15, 2014 2:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie needs help!
Thanks for your reaction! I will take all these things in consideration, great stuff!
OT: Well there isn't much of a relationship but i'll give you some info. She studies arts (quite talented), looks quite shy, has alot of friends unfortunatly a very few common-friends.
First time i saw her was at school at that time (previous school year september). We made like 5 seconds eyecontact smiling. We did this alot actually, but unfortunatly I didn't have balls at the time to go up to her and talk to her. Wich is a big mistake cause I still regret it.
Thing is I've stumbled upon her fb account a week ago and got to know her name, funny side story is i've dreamt about her yesterday... (true story). I don't believe in destiny or anything, heck I don't even know the girl's personality, but it made me think! Yet i'm still 'puzzled' ;)
Hopefully this text has some value for you!
Author:  Puzzled [ Fri Apr 18, 2014 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie needs help!
Don't worry, if anything having some of the same friends can help you out, you need to excite her. Let her talk about you to those friends so that they can wing you and let her know that you're a cool guy, not a nice guy. Nice guys get friendzoned, doesn't mean you can't be nice, but you don't want to be categorized with all the other butt fuck dudes. If she says that she has a boyfriend or is talking to someone, completely ignore it and just keep going with the set that you're running, don't let it affect you, it's a compliance test. To see if you're manly enough to show S and R value. Let me know what you're thinking about saying and I'll see if I can help you out more with it.
Author:  Apples185 [ Sat Apr 19, 2014 12:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie needs help!
Quote:
First and foremost. Read Mystery Method. Thats a start. Second, don't worry about working out and sports, they're an asset, but they aren't going to win you the girls, your persona does.
Hitting the iron helps boost your testosterone, thus gaining more masculinity, so kinda disagree with you there.
Author:  Tchill [ Sat Apr 19, 2014 1:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie needs help!
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First and foremost. Read Mystery Method. Thats a start. Second, don't worry about working out and sports, they're an asset, but they aren't going to win you the girls, your persona does.
Hitting the iron helps boost your testosterone, thus gaining more masculinity, so kinda disagree with you there.

If he can't chat with her it doesn't help. Maybe he has to learn the structure of MM before he can do any game. Hitting wieghts to get good at game isn't any direct help it just helps your insecurities and to shut the fuck up about your insecurities.
Author:  Sly-Mike [ Sat Apr 19, 2014 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie needs help!
Hey mate.

Firstly I'd advise you not to think too much about this one girl. You're gonna psyche yourself out. Go out and start approaching. You need to get experience under your belt.

Secondly, in terms of this particular girl, get her number and arrange a day 2 with her. This can be done quickly before she gets on the bus. However, unless you've taken step one you're gonna find this very difficult.

Hope this helps.

Sly-Mike
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