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| Author: | Noitartst [ Tue Apr 08, 2014 10:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Having Tried Learning Pickup Indirect, I'll Go Direct |
My body languge is much better, and I'm more aware, but I'm just not having any success, yet. Feels like I'm starting over, which I kinda am. |
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| Author: | Noitartst [ Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having Tried Learning Pickup Indirect, I'll Go Direct |
The other day, I approached a staffer at my gym. I asked about her name, and proceeded to game her, talking a little about my family, as she'd talk a little about hers. That's establishing too much comfort too early, isn't it? I was using good body languge, I'd say, but there wasn't enough tension, was there? |
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| Author: | negatron [ Wed Apr 16, 2014 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having Tried Learning Pickup Indirect, I'll Go Direct |
It sounds like you already have answered your questions. Are you saying you went direct with her and started talking about family? For me that isn't exactly direct, i picture direct being you are telling her you are attracted to her and qualifying etc. Just because you approach directly doesn't make it a direct opener in my eyes, its about what you say. Body language should be the same in both cases. |
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| Author: | Noitartst [ Wed Apr 16, 2014 8:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having Tried Learning Pickup Indirect, I'll Go Direct |
Point taken; I guess I haven't been too direct, even if I'm becoming more so. Yesterday, I approached her alone in her office. The situation was, I'd I'd earlier been talking to someone else near the desk, and she had been giving me a proximity alert. Taking that as a vote of confidence, I approached her just before I had to catch my bus, so I had a natural time restraint. <Complimenting how good she looked, ala direct. Then, I started talking about myself, whilst asking questions about her, whilst teasing, which worked pretty well. Said something that caused a big positive reaction, geting her to playfuly joke about throwing me out, but in the process omy reply, I made another positive comment about her looks, which led her to take more defensive body language. Shaken by her reaction, I decided to eject before stuck my foot in my mouth, anymore. I said I had to go, and shook hands. SHe had a strong grip, too; could have been an IOI, but I'm not sure. Let's replay the situation: Were I going direct, how should I have played it? I did a direct opener, but I didn't do enough qualification, did I? Shoulda been open, qualify, while teasing intermittently, yes? I guess I really don't know how to do a direct sarge; any good examples you could show? |
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