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| Author: | scj_87 [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 2:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her? |
So theres this gas station attendant, HB7-8 i would say but tight little body. I've just recently got into this game, so this would be a good starting point, since my first target doesn't know what the hell she wants. I've been in this station a few times for whatever reasons this week... The first time, I wasn't sure but i felt a little spark or tension, whatever it is, that you just know something's there. The second time, yesterday, she saw me pull up in my truck (it's a nice truck) as she was by the door, and got some IOIs im pretty sure (checking out my truck, me, I think). Anyways, she's staring at me as I'm going up to the counter, she was making eye contact for a good bit as i walked up. I made just a little bit of small talk then i got on my way. This is why I fucking hate shyness. Body language-wise, i carry myself well, no slouching, eye contact, etc. But I realize that leaps gotta be taken to get anywhere. So later on that night, I went back to get her number, seriously, I just said fuck it and went back just to ask if she's single (not that I care) and ask for her number but she was gone by that time. This particular place is usually busy, so how do I approach this? I believe the attraction is there, it seems like it anyways. The setting will probably be me approaching her while her being most likely behind the counter and lines of people there. So do I go in and be direct (my preference for this situation, kind of contradicts my shyness, I know but i gotta defeat it) or how should I do it? I want her number, then i can really start to apply the advice and lessons taught on this forum since this situation is different from my last. In short, how do I attack this? |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 2:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her |
I generally follow the rule of don't shit where you eat. I have a few favourite places with some really cute women who have been giving me longing looks, sometimes it gets intimidating that's how intense it can be. Honestly, I would only consider it if she opened communication with me regarding something about me or not work related("Is that your truck/car? It's really nice."). If she comments on your truck or something relating to you be c/f and invite her for a ride. If you notice her checking out your truck tell her you noticed it. She'll feed you some line. If she's embarrassed and it's true she'll blush, if she's confident she's going to admit it anyway. Either way you just ask her if she wants to go for a ride sometime being c/f. Keeps it safe, you're not asking her out officially but letting her know you're interested. If she turns you down and feeds you some line you don't have to feel awkward about it plus you've shown confidence in calling her out on it. |
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| Author: | scj_87 [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her |
Thanks bro. I'll just have to see whenever we meet again, I'm all about c/f. On the other side, say she doesn't really open convo with me or not at all, she seemed the shy/qiuet type from what I got. Hypothetically, let's assume she is shy. I feel at this point I would have to open and lead the flow of conversation and be alpha. A few questions... 1. If I had to take control, should I just move on to direct game? 2. What are examples of direct game? 3. If she really is shy then what are your recommendations? I am new to this but for some reason, I feel the calibration for this is to bypass all the qualification stuff, time constraints, other tools of the game, and get the number another way, given the enviroment and scenario. From that point, it would be text game and physical interaction, meet ups and whatnot, right? If it were at a park or a bar or something then it would be different, right? I gotta ask this stuff, I wanna learn it. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 4:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her |
When I said "If you notice her checking out your truck tell her you noticed it. She'll feed you some line. If she's embarrassed and it's true she'll blush, if she's confident she's going to admit it anyway. Either way you just ask her if she wants to go for a ride sometime being c/f." I was really just saying you should use that to open her if she doesn't say anything or she was shy. It's direct. 1. In this situation... Just be direct but be c/f. Tell her you noticed her checking your truck out and then ask her if she wants a ride in it. 2. Here's direct vs. indirect: http://www.rooshv.com/direct-game-vs-indirect-game 3. Be cool, let her take her time and don't intimidate her. Let her know she's not under pressure and she's making her own decision. You're talking about unnatural game and probably read Mystery Method. Great book for structure and theory but you don't need that in this situation. You have a girl who likes you but she's shy. Be the man, take control and don't play her. There's no game in a situation like this just guidance really. The only advice you really need is to be direct, indicate you're interested and leave it up to her given the situation(Don't shit where you eat crap) without actually telling her you want her. You want to play it off safe seeing as you frequent this place. This is what you do: "Hey, noticed you checking out my ride." She'll laugh or be quiet and shy and say something. Don't get too bogged up in the conversation with crap about your truck just lead straight into "I'll give you a ride sometime." She'll either say yes or no. If she says yes -- even jokingly -- tell her you'll pick her up when she gets off work. If she says no be c/f: "You're missing out, it's as good as it looks." If she still says no just play it cool and say "I'll see you around, Cindy(Whatever her name is)." If you leave it open like that you've left with her name and some rapport and can always refer back to giving her a ride in future interactions if things go well. Remember, if she says no it doesn't mean she's not interested just that she's cautious so don't be disheartened by it. Now, I know being direct is basically saying you're interested in the woman but in this case asking a chick to get in your car is pretty damn direct at least in my opinion. Try not to get confused with direct and indirect. Don't put too much on your plate or obsess over things right now. Learn about time constraints and other stuff but experiment with them on your own once you have a full grasp on how to use them. You'll see what works for you and what doesn't. Basically what fits into your style. After that ask around on forums for specifics. |
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| Author: | valleyplaya [ Wed Jan 01, 2014 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her |
Quote: I generally follow the rule of don't shit where you eat. I have a few favourite places with some really cute women who have been giving me longing looks, sometimes it gets intimidating that's how intense it can be.
All respect, dude, but this is wrong. She's a gas station attendant, man! Sorry to say it, but unless you're a guy with no hopes and dreams, this girl is beneath you. Therefore she doesn't require any prepping or buttering up. Just walk in there, and if you have trouble with this then drink before going in, and line or not say to her, "Hey, you seem like a cool person. I was wondering if you'd like to maybe grab a drink sometime." Buck up, son.
Honestly, I would only consider it if she opened communication with me regarding something about me or not work related("Is that your truck/car? It's really nice."). If she comments on your truck or something relating to you be c/f and invite her for a ride. If you notice her checking out your truck tell her you noticed it. She'll feed you some line. If she's embarrassed and it's true she'll blush, if she's confident she's going to admit it anyway. Either way you just ask her if she wants to go for a ride sometime being c/f. Keeps it safe, you're not asking her out officially but letting her know you're interested. If she turns you down and feeds you some line you don't have to feel awkward about it plus you've shown confidence in calling her out on it. |
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| Author: | scj_87 [ Wed Jan 01, 2014 11:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her |
Got it, thanks guys. Both insights very helpful. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Jan 02, 2014 1:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction from gas station attendant, how do i game her |
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All respect, dude, but this is wrong. She's a gas station attendant, man! Sorry to say it, but unless you're a guy with no hopes and dreams, this girl is beneath you. Therefore she doesn't require any prepping or buttering up. Just walk in there, and if you have trouble with this then drink before going in, and line or not say to her, "Hey, you seem like a cool person. I was wondering if you'd like to maybe grab a drink sometime." Buck up, son.
I wasn't talking about her value as a person -- whether that's above or below you -- I was saying if you frequent that place often don't make it awkward for yourself if you'll be going back there.
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