| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Direct game the only way to go in high energy student clubs? https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=51&t=170643 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | needforspeed [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 3:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Direct game the only way to go in high energy student clubs? |
I just wondered what you guys thought about 'student clubs' women in their prime between 18-20..... I am quite a good looking guy, and found that indirect, assumptions etc, questions just pisses girls off because they are out to have fun and let their hair down not to connect.... most game seems to focus around mystery method...in UK I dont think that works and its not about rapport. Recently, I have been going super direct... "maybe I'm a bit overconfident, but you know, your are so fucking sexy" at this point eye contact is strong, I would have opened by touching and holding my arm on her shoulder, and then pulling her in by the waste so we are nose to nose, then Id dance a bit, hang in there, and go for the kiss.... the rest of night its just leading and escalation.... Does any one else have this type of experience, what are your thoughts about direct..... It just makes me think, is much of game designed to help men to avoid being men and get women, rather than keep it simple, have some balls and tell her you want her.... and leading it from there....... surely with all the studies all over the world concerning attraction, direct shows all the most common favourable traits confidence, arrogance, not needy, willing to gamble and lose her, and it shows social dominance.... |
|
| Author: | ZealousR [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 5:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct game the only way to go in high energy student cl |
Direct approach is much better. I found that preordained intentions and practiced lines are more of gimmicks, and a synthetic way of being who you are while building attraction. Attraction Through Honesty by Mark Manson is the book I've been reading and it has completely changed my outlook from using lines to just being yourself, being outward with your attraction (which is actually seen more open and less needy), and being vulnerable, which in the book means just being who you are and anyone can take it or leave it. The book transitions you into being more open while also helps you secure your inner game so rejection doesn't phase you. After reading I tried out the methods and have gotten alot more out of life and more successful interactions because it signifies it's now what you say (fancy lines) it's how you say it (meaning behind the message) I don't even rehearse lines or things before interactions and they're better than ever. Out of any book I've read so far I would recommend this one if you would like to have more honest, genuine interactions instead of lines that run out. I have the PDF so pm me if you'd like a copy. |
|
| Author: | Rough Operator [ Wed Oct 30, 2013 3:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Direct game the only way to go in high energy student cl |
Yeah I find that in the UK direct game in clubs works really well. Virtually every SNL or short term fling I've had from clubs started with the line "Hey, you're really gorgeous I wanted to come and introduce myself, my name is Rough" and it's gone swimmingly from there. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|