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| Author: | MikeIsSingle [ Fri Feb 15, 2008 7:11 pm ] |
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Sup Guys my name is Michael, let me start with my some background info. Im a sophmore in college coming off a 2 year relationship. I live in an on campus apartment with 3 relative weird, anti social roommates. I hardly have any close friends. Im wondering how i can get out and meet people. I really want to start partying more but i dont have any connections with people. im not 21 so i cant go to a bar yet. im not in a frat and dont know anyone in one really. I joined a few clubs to meet people but for the most part they dont party. Im a computer science major so the people in my major are really weird and dont party. Where do i start???? just walk around my complex and crash a random party? Im good with ladies once i get to know them but i feel right now my life doesnt have anything interesting to offer. Basically Im an introvert that wants to be an extrovert. Just post up ideas to get in the partying life, and i can give more info if needed. |
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| Author: | ImTheBest [ Fri Feb 15, 2008 7:34 pm ] |
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I wouldnt start crashing peoples parties but im sure there will be other guys like you. Just continue to join clubs, socialise and make friends. I was like this when I first started university but after a while you will meet people you can go out with and party etc. Everything will be fine just keep on socialising. |
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| Author: | MikeIsSingle [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 6:11 pm ] |
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any more ideas guys?! |
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| Author: | Johnson [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 7:09 pm ] |
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You could ask some of your less weird buddies from your classes, to take you to some party and meet someone, by that ! |
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| Author: | TheGillMachine [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 8:07 pm ] |
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There are plenty of classes you can take at any university where you can socialize with other, less weird people. It never hurts to sign up for a bowling class, learn a martial art, or maybe even some creative writing classes (if that's your bag-- it never hurts to improve ones writing skills, anyhow). What I'm trying to say is, maybe stray away from trying to meet people in computer science classes. But I digress. Now, I'm not quite sure exactly what your situation is, but there are probably a lot of sporting events or other types of daytime social activities you can attend and meet some cool new people. Do a little networking and find out where the hot spots for parties are (or throw one yourself. I'd suggest drugging your roommates or some other means of hiding their pale, unwashed neckbeard-faces). The possibilities are endless, pal. |
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| Author: | MikeIsSingle [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 7:07 pm ] |
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yeah man, im changing my major after this semester, the dorks in my classes dont party at all, i promise! ive thrown a few parties but ive yet to meet anyone new. i dont want to start picking up some ladies until i have a good group of guys to be the AMOG of. |
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| Author: | TheGillMachine [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 10:01 pm ] |
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Quote: yeah man, im changing my major after this semester, the dorks in my classes dont party at all, i promise! ive thrown a few parties but ive yet to meet anyone new. i dont want to start picking up some ladies until i have a good group of guys to be the AMOG of.
Ooh, wrong approach. Don't find a group that you can dominate. It's good to have people to look up to you, but you won't learn anything. And at that point, you'll be cocky for all the wrong reasons.Its like they say in drug rehab, "If you hang around trash, eventually you'll start smelling like it." You could be the shiniest turd in the toilet, but you'll still be a turd. Find someone you trust more than a brother to wing with and play off each other. Join a fraternity (If you want to find people that'll stick closer than brothers, a good pledge class is definitely a plus. And you'll have older, more experienced, oversexed guys to mentor you. Might not hurt to knock you down a few pegs, either.), sign up for a volleyball league. I could go on all day. |
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| Author: | MikeIsSingle [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 10:41 pm ] |
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eh i get what you are saying, i didnt mean find a bunch of bitches to run around with, ur right i do need people i can look up too. right now thats been hard for me to find. Most of those type people dont feel like taking me under their wing as far as the frat goes ill be a junior next year which is a little late to pledge. i wanted to be in a frat last year but my gf didnt like the idea |
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| Author: | MikeIsSingle [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 3:21 am ] |
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gill machine post as many ideas as possible, i really want to get involved but a lot of things dont sound right for me... maybe its just bc ive never really been that involved |
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| Author: | Mr. Fantastic [ Fri Feb 22, 2008 7:34 pm ] |
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I don't see anything wrong with crashing parties, especially if they're in your apt. complex. A simple, "What's up, I'm your neighbor!" should break the ice. BYOB to not be rude, also make sure to find out who the host is and say hello to them too. You may not know these people at the beginning of the night, but everybody's close at sunrise. |
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| Author: | Whoopie [ Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Sorry Mike |
Hey Mike! If I was living in Greenville and wasn't deploying to Iraq. I would love to come down to Clemson to be your wing. Clemson has alot of fine looking ladies. And I could possible run into people I knew way back when which would be easier to get into a set. |
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